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Monday, August 31, 2009
BEAUTY UNEXPECTED
I received this today in an email and I checked it's authenticity. It's definitely thought provoking.
Washington, D.C., Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007.
The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2 thousand people went through the station, most of them on their way to work.
After 3 minutes a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule.
4 minutes later: The violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.
6 minutes: A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.
10 minutes: A 3-year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The child stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly.
45 minutes: The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.
1 hour: He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded nor was there any recognition.
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars.
Two days before, Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.
This is a true story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.
The questions are raised: in a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?
One conclusion reached from this experiment could be this: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made... How many other things are we missing?
Good Morning Everyone!!!
ReplyDeletemorning birdee!~
ReplyDeleteJ/L~ I read that too~ very very interesting~ Makes me wonder what I would do~
ReplyDeleteBAM!! 4
ReplyDeleteHey Tina!! ;)
ReplyDeleteJ/L, Interesting blog. I'm sure I would stop and listen. I'm also sure I'm missing out on alot lately...
Morning Glories!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on first Fuzzy!
J/L We are missing out on so much. Sad that so many times we don't take the time to enjoy the music the flowers or even to try to understand the world around us.
I am just as guilty, tho I do find myself more and more trying to open my eyes to other possibilities. Sometimes it makes me sad or cranky but then I find a happy moment and feel educated and connected to so many.
Life is interesting.
Morning Tina and Dee Dee!
ReplyDeleteTina I think Eunice needs a make over. I keep thinking she is drooling into her dreds.
re: area 51.....
ReplyDeleteyou guy's and your wanting pics!!!! LOL Crack's me up!
I can try and do the picture thing, but can't make any promise's. Don't have a digital camera or scanner anymore. I think the last time I posted any pics, we may have used my g-daughters' camera. With her being back in school and my daughter's work schedule, I don't see her as much. Let me see what I can do..
Maybe I can find a "helmut head" on photobucket!!! lol
J/L I just read the post again and really am taken by the children. They wanted to stop and look and listen. Sad that we hurry them along when they have the curiosity and wonder to know to stop and pay attention.
ReplyDeleteLynnD The more I think about it, the more I'm thinking that when we are in our "task oriented" mode it is probably good that we don't let pretty objects (or music) distract us. When we were cavemen, it would have been deadly to go out on a hunt and stop and ponder a flower, for instance. Either the sabre tooth tiger would get us or we would have a failed hunt and our children would starve. Timing may be everything. People needing to catch a train in order to make a living may have gotten totally different results than if the violinist would have been playing in a park or on a street corner.
ReplyDeleteGood Morning!
ReplyDeleteJ/LIN: Loved your blog today. It is true that sometimes life seems to move so fast we miss opportunities to just stop and look and listen to the beauty that surrounds us. I was in the pool the other day, floating on my back when I noticed just how blue the sky was and how pretty the clouds looked floating across it. The neighborhood was so quiet and I watched for a long time..perfectly relaxed and happy.
It may have been a small thing..but it made a huge difference in my day. Beauty IS all around us..you really do just have to stop for a second and look and listen.
Great blog today L/LIN..thank you!
Birdee Congrats on first. I'm sure you don't have a helmut-head. LOL
ReplyDeleteTina Now that LynnD mentions it, that cig does look like drool. Still thinking about George?
DeeDee I like the way you enter a room. :)
LynnD That owl avatar always makes me smile.
Zona Good morning! You floated in while I was typing.
ReplyDeleteBIRRDEEE!!: Congrats on FIRST Fuzzy and cute! :)
ReplyDeleteLYNND: Life certainly is interesting..I just wish I understood some of the things that happen a little better.
HI DEEDEE! HI TINA!
LYNND: LOL!! Ol' skinny legs is back!! :D
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's time for me to change my avatar too..hmmmm...what to do..
J/LIN: I got off subject a little. I think I probably would have stopped to listen to the violinist. My grandfather played the violin and I just love how beautiful it sounds.
ReplyDeleteMorning Zona! Yes I decided I needed a view of my skinny legs this morning. LOL
ReplyDeleteJ/L I agree that when we are in work mode or trying to get to an appt. It is important to meet our obligations. So yes I understand why people did not stop.
This then made me think would it be different if we applied the age old lesson of, if I was given a short time to live would I have stopped? Again different results. Trying to find the balance is a hard thing to do.
Ok I am back again.
ReplyDeleteI also wonder if people would have stopped if they knew who was playing that violin? Would that have made a difference? Tho I do worry that some would have robbed him if they knew the violin was worth 3.5 million dollars! Oy my brain is going into overload. LOL
You bet I would have stopped!! I always do.....
ReplyDeleteOnce in a mall an older black lady...very well dressed....was singing hymns...people discounted her for crazy because she would talk about Jesus and then burst into a few verses....
I was headed to lunch with a group and I had to stop and listen to her. She had an amazing voice that filled the mall. I stood close to her making eye contact and smiling with my hands clasped over my heart with tears in my eyes.
It was beautiful....and I was moved that this woman...no matter how rudely people acted or how they pointed and rolled their eyes....had the huevos to share what I saw as a message of love and beauty.....
At one point I went to her and we embraced and I told her how much I appreciated and had enjoyed what she was doing. She simply smiled and said thank you and told me to have a blessed day......
When we got back from lunch she was gone....but I won't ever forget her...I walked my friend back to her office....she sat behind her desk and grabbed a tissue and was wiping tears from her eyes...and I said...Eliza...was the fish that bad??!! Laughing she said no....but she went on to say....you were the only person who paid that lady any attention....who spoke to her...you even hugged her.....what were the rest of us thinking!!!
I said...Eliza...maybe today was just for me....and maybe the next time you see or hear something that moves you....you will take the time to stop and let it fill you heart and mind...
I personally need a lot of light. Daily beauty that takes my breath away.......and thats not a tall order....I am easy to impress that way. I actually...believe it or not...have lived a life of trying to make people happy....their days a little brighter....I guess thats why I know how much it can take and how little...and why I am satisfied with "a little"...
So in regard to Joshua Bell....I would hope I hadn't missed much of the 45 minutes when I happened upon him....probably would have just thrown my whole purse in his case...waited for him to finish and whisked him into the city to William Morris to get him an agent!!
sorry for the babbling...I have to change my depends now anyway......
G'Morning everyone!!
DeeDee That was a lovely story. Thank you for sharing it. It brings up another point; it doesn't take much at all to show appreciation.
ReplyDeleteGood Morning BRB
ReplyDeleteDeeDee~ you just made me remember.....these three people at the mall downtown where playing reggae music.....they were wearing tie-died clothes and smelled to high heaven......but we stopped with the kids to listen.....we always do....cuz you never know what you are going to hear. When we are in Europe, we stop for sure.....and in NYC...omg.....loved ur story~ Hope you didn't wait too long to change ur diaper~ :D
ReplyDeleteBE BOLD!
ReplyDeleteSorry just had to get that out of my system.
Sorry to pop in and leave so abruptly. I wanted to stay but had things I had to do.
ReplyDeleteGood Morning Birdee - You early bird you.
Good Morning Tina, Dee Dee, Lynn, Just_Lin, and last but first in my heart, Zona-My-Baby.
Just_Lin - I loved your blog. It made such a point of showing us we are rushing through life. I bet many people didn't even notice he was there. However the children did. I think you are so right with the idea that we are all in that, "hurry up and get there mode". I wish I had the days back when my kids were little so that I could take more time to enjoy the small beauties in life. I have enjoyed my grandchildren so much more because I have the time to just 'be there for them'.
When we are young it's almost like being on a squirrel wheel, trying to juggle; raising 3 kids as well as a husband, holding down a job, looking after the house and all that entails. We just don't have time to "stop and smell the roses". In hind sight I wish I had just somehow made the time.
Zona - I loved your story of totally relaxing in the pool. I think that is the secret of a happy life. Taking the time to enjoy.
I just got the call from the Emergency Diagnostic Clinic at Victoria General Hospital. I have an appointment on Sept. 11th. Maybe then I can find out why I am having difficulty walking.
ReplyDeleteOff to visit my farm on facebook. Be back later.
Good Afternoon..
ReplyDeleteJust Lin - I saw this article as well - and thought about the hussle and bussle of life - amazing isn't it..
waving howdy to all.......
i hope everyone is having an excellent day!
:-)
Good afternoon everyone!
ReplyDeleteJ/L I not only would have stopped, but would have probably pointed him out to others.I love that any musicians are allowed to sing/play in public places. In Europe you see that a lot. There is always a group listening.I know people are in a rush, but ALL of them? We just can't seem to stop and smell the roses. I doubt that a few seconds of acknowledgment would have ruined anyone's day. Can you tell this fires me up lol!!
Being retired I have had the great pleasure of doing what Zona has done. I just sit and take in all of nature's beauty and sounds.
Tinka, I am glad you will find out something soon. Good luck!
How many other things are we missing? Despite the provocative nature of this experiment, I would answer: Not as many as the results of this article might imply. How many people on the street recognize Bach these days? How many have the ear to recognize truly virtuoso performances of classical pieces? How many have the experience to differentiate a world-class instrument from a run-of-the-mill instrument? How many would recognize these things when their attention is almost completely focused on other concerns and other sources of stimuli?
ReplyDeleteI think the bottom line here is not that this experiment wasn't interesting, but that it reveals the importance of the right attentional set to processing and appreciating beauty. Without attention, not much registers in the brain. When not much registers, there is little opportunity to recognize beauty.
Whabbear~ Standing ovation!!!
ReplyDeleteLet me just say....if George Clooney was walking in front of me, I'm absolutely positive that I would not only notice, but follow him, accost him, and in the end, trap him into marriage! There! I got that off my chest! I feel better~
ReplyDeleteTina I thought your chest looked too big. LOL
ReplyDeleteBear And look what has happened to art and music appreciation classes in California! Shameful!
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ReplyDeleteyou have got to be the worst counter ever~ :)~
ReplyDeleteTina regarding your comment at 7:30PM tonight, I thought you were already married to George Clooney. Just the other day when I told you about his accident you said
ReplyDelete" Tina~in_ut said...
damnit shirley...why is he wife always the last to know!!!!~"
Would you care to clarify?
like if I wasn't married to him, duh! ga!!!! Do I have to explain everything?~ It was an example, honey! Just to make a point~ :D
ReplyDeleteGood blog today Just Lin! I like classical music so I think I would have stopped for a bit.
ReplyDeleteJUST LIN...good blog. It isinteresting how much of a hurry we find ourselves in all the time...even when we don't have to be. I would like to think that I would top and savor the beauty, but I am afraid I would probably keep rushing for my train, too. But, if I was just walking down a street and saw him, I think I would be more inclined to stop and enjoy.
ReplyDeleteI saw an interesting thing on line earlier today about the number of paid vacation days US workers get vs. Canada, Germany and France. We rank the lowest...13 days per year. I think Canada was like 19 days, Germany more and France the most. I think we could be more productive in the long run if our employers allowed us the opportunity to stop and smell the roses...or listen to the classics...a little more often.
Sadly, I had the aame thought as LYNN...I was afraid the end og the story would have been he got mugged for his violin. Sad, isn't it?
ReplyDeleteI don't think that came out right. I didn't mean that it is sad that I think like LYNN! I meant it is sad what we both thought about!!!
ReplyDeleteTina thanks for the clarification!
ReplyDeleteYou're more than welcome, Shirley~ :)~
ReplyDeleteI am off to bed now. Tomorrow is going to be a long day. My niece and nephew are going to a bible college in BC and they leave tomorrow. My sister is having a hard time with the empty nest syndrom and my mum is afraid she will never get to see them again. So I think tomorrow will have a lot of tears in it. Good night everyone and have a good day tomorrow. I'm not sure if I'll have time to post the stats, but I will try.
ReplyDeleteHey SHIRLEY! How goes it? Ya gonna march to 69?
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ReplyDeleteShirley..
ReplyDeleteMany good thoughts coming ur way for tomorrow.. and congrats to your niece and nephew for their continued education..
Birdee.. Happy 1, and good morning to you as well.. :O)
ReplyDeleteDAMN!!
ReplyDeleteGood luck tomorrow, SHIRLEY
Thanks Carol!
ReplyDeleteSorry Maureen, did I step on your little piggies?
Tina It all made sense when I was doing it. LOL
ReplyDeleteJ/L..
ReplyDeleteI would like to think that I would have stopped, but I know me and if something is on my mind, or I have a place to be, I surely would have kept on going.. I try to stop and breath and absorb was it around me, but I am to easily deterred.. I forget the beauty in life at times, which I think is why I am sad sometimes. I need to remember this blog, so I see the beauty as well..
Mo..
ReplyDeleteShirley stomped right over you, so she can get her 69! Now I know if it was a race for bacon you would have surly won.. LOL
Tina..
ReplyDeleteSo I hear you are married to George Clooney? is it true? are you moving to Italy?
Dee..
ReplyDeleteThe story you shared with us, took me by surprise. You were so caring to the person that many were not. You took the time to share a hug, when I am sure a hug was needed.. I do not think I would have hugged her, I might have spoken with her, but a hug would have been intimate for me. Kudos to you for holding no barriers.
I was suppose to adopt a rescue puppy this weekend. A local shelter had gotten many pups from a mill that was closed down. I had it all set up, I even had a name.. Then my mother asked me not to do it, that it would be to much for her, she said she could not handle a puppy. I explained that I would take the puppy to work each day with me, and it would only be home all day on weekends, but I would be with it, and if I did venture out, the puppy could go in the crate until my return. I felt odd trying to explain this to her, like I was trying to bargain with her. And after all said in done, I realized, they (my dad to) are just to old for change, a puppy does bring happiness, but perhaps to the elder, they feel the puppy takes over and maybe intrudes on their life..
ReplyDeleteSo I did not do it.. I will always have hope tho, I actually went on the website this morning, and they still have many..
Than in a quick second I thought of just doing it and bringing it home, they would have to love it then right? No, the quick second came and went..
I also wonder if its selfish of my mother? or am I being selfish? I am just not sure..
I am just glad I did not go to pet smart and buy all the stuff, I know I could have taken everything back, but it probably would have had me in tears..
CAROL...what if you took your mom and dad to see the puppy and maybe hold it. Perhaps that would change their minds. My mom always said she never liked or wanted dogs, yet we always had at least one. When no one was looking she would be petting it and talking to it!!
ReplyDeleteOnce we were driving and saw a sign for puppies. We stopped just to look. I fell in love with this little white puppy and mom fell in love with a little black one. Of course being the mom she was we left with the white one! A little while late she said she had an errand to run and returned with the black one!!! So much for her not liking dogs!
TINA...we have something else in common...celebrity husbands! You and George and me and JBJ!!!
ReplyDeleteCarol I know you are thinking about puppies, but there are many nice adult dogs that desperately need homes, especially now days, with so many people not able to afford their pets anymore. Maybe your parents would be more agreeable about a dog that is already house trained and behaves nicely.
ReplyDeleteWow, Carol, your comment has made me sad! You may recall me mentioning my mother's drinking problem over these last many years, and my Dad's attempt to deal with it has been to uproot them and move. Even as they've aged into their 70's and 80's, he's done that several times in the last 10 years alone, and each time, plunked the two of them down in an entirely new environment. With so many disruptions, having a pet of any sort has been out of the question, despite the fact that my Mom absolutely adores animals, and would have a loved a cat or a dog (and I think a pet would have been very good for her).
ReplyDeleteOh, the decisions people make, and oh, the consequences.... :(
Mo.. I asked my mother if she wanted to go and see the pups, but she said no. Cute that your mother went back to get the other dog.. thanks :O)
ReplyDeleteJ/L.. I thought about a adult dog as well.. I have not brought up that option with her tho.. I will think about sharing it with her.. thanks :O)
Bear I'm really sorry to hear that about your parents. It must be so difficult to not be truly settled at their age.
ReplyDeleteWhabby..
ReplyDeleteI guess your dad is thinking if I move it will all go away, not realizing that when you move, everything comes with you. It just must be his way of dealing with things.. It might be the only way he knows how.. and you are right a dog/cat would not be a good fit..
So sad about your mom, dealing with a addiction of a family member sure takes it toll...
Carol...
ReplyDeleteThere is a lot of power in the touch among us humans...
With that lady that day in the mall there simply was no questioning it....it was perfectly natural for me.....I didn't want to let her go..
I have seen it mark the beginning of emotional and physical healing and in my experience with people who feel that they have been beaten by life in one way or the other.....to me it is essential.
I know that I may have surprised more than a couple of people with this "crazy" talk......but this day has been different for me after comtemplating J/L's blog.....no props ...no lights.....just me..
Thanks, J/L, and Carol, I believe that was his thought process, exactly.
ReplyDeleteMy Mom's a little better these days, I don't think she drinks every day anymore. Her behavior changes so drastically, we know immediately when she has been drinking.
Dee..
ReplyDeleteI understand the need for a hug being essential, I am def a hugger, but in my own surrounding's with family/friends. To hug a stranger (which the need is probably greater) is something I could not do. What you have shown is compassion for one who needed it the most and you saw that, and so you did what is natural to you being in that circumstance your compassion arose.
That is what it is about blogs, some blogs will come and go, and some will trigger something in you that will make you see other than what you normally see..
I am happy that you shared this story with us, for the compassion has enlightened me.. I very glad that J/L shared this blog with us, as it brought something special out in many of us..
ok guys.. I am off to bed..
ReplyDeletec u all tomorrow..
nite..
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DeeDee I sure do like "just" you. :)
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