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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

And so it goes.....

For Shirley


and so when we become an existence 
it's our parents who we first see
their arms comfort us
and then allow us to grow

in times of life's troubles, it's our family
who grounds us, they keep us whole
and even when there are no words spoken 
we know in our hearts that they are there

some days of the years, time will go by
not a sight or sound from someone familiar 
but yet, when the good fortune of a holiday appears
our family surrounds us, so memories can be made

in the heart, the memories are stored
they beat in time with the heart
they allow us to feel the love
of those very special people whose arms held us
when we first met so very long ago

time will bring the sorrow to a hum
it however will always be there
as for reasons of the heart it never goes away
life will continue for we are only human
and what we feel is real

the peace is given, it must be embraced

and so it goes, and so it goes
for we are the only ones who know




50 comments:

  1. Nice Blog Carol~

    Shirley, I know you don't believe what I do, but I'm praying for you and I truly believe your mum is in a better place...painfree and with your father~ Big hugs~

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  2. Morning Glories!

    Tina you look lovely this morning!

    Carol that was beautiful and so true.

    Shirley I love you and will be thinking about you all day today. It will be hard, it always is when we lose a loved one. Saying prayers and sending (((Hugs))).

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  3. Good morning,

    Shirley, I am thinking of you and your family today. xoxo

    Tina, you are SO pretty!

    Hey Lynn!

    Off to work I go! I'm on vacation this week, but "helping out" today.

    Have a great day!

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  4. Good Morning Lovely one.

    Shirley~~ I agree with tina~ we don't have to believe in the same way, but your Mum is in a better place now.

    I hope you take good care of yourself and know that your Owl friends are here for you.

    Good Morning Lynn and EBJ!

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  5. CAROL - What a beautiful blog :O)

    SHIRLEY - It was good to hear your voice this morning. And I hope the uncles back the *uck off!!! ;) Hang in there and know that you have a whole nestful of friends thinking about you during this most difficult time. I truly believe that your Mum is in a better place....pain free and with the man that she loves ♥

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  6. Carol Beautiful blog today.

    Tina You're *cough* pretty. *cough, cough*

    Shirley I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mum is free of the pain now and I'm so glad you were able to spend the time with her that you did. (((HUGS)))

    Good morning, LynnD, Goldie and EBJ.

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  7. Waving a wing at TINA, LYNN, EBJ, & GOLDIE!! Our a/c died this weekend, so Sam and I are heading to the movies to find some relief.

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  8. Beautiful blog today CAROL..it's so true..every memory made is a memory cherished..and they mean so much when you can share them all with family that understands and remembers with you.

    SHIRLEY: My heart and my prayers go out to you and your family today. Your mum is now free from pain and in a much better place. Keep the memory of her alive in your heart..for it's there that she will always be with you. Big {{Hugs}} to you today and each day that you need them.

    TINA: Pretty yes..but you forgot humble and hot.. :D

    Waving HI to GOLDIE, LYNN, JODI and EBJ!

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  9. Beautiful sentiment Carol. At the end of the day, it is the memories that count.

    Shirley, You know that your Mum is free from pain now. I have been thinking good thoughts and sending good Karma to you to day and I even said a prayer for you and your Mum. She is looking down on you and she knows all you have done for her. Hold on to the good memories.

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  10. Wildly waving a wing to Carol, Tina (pretty), Lynn, EBJ, Goldie, Jodi (stay cool), J/L, Zona, and all the other Owls. Off to get my nails done. BBL

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  11. Thank you Thank you Thank you! What more can I say? The messages I have read here and on FB and the phone calls have been sooooo much appreciated. You guys are awesome!! I'm sure Tina already knows that! Lol!

    Being with my siblings and dealing with other family members today has taken it's toll on me, but coming home and seeing this brought a smile to my face and tears to my eyes.

    I love you all! MUAH!! ((HUGS))

    btw Tina...I'm prettier!

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  12. Tina, what can I say? You are something to behold! ;-)

    Carol, that was beautiful! I was with my Mother when she passed. I was able to rest my head on her chest as her heart made the last beat, so your blog meant something to me too.

    Shirley, "I wuv u " :)

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  13. Tina you didn't tie DeeDee up in the basement again did you?

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  14. Is Dianne still Queen of the mountain?

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  15. Geez I thought for sure the FREE PORN would bring people out.

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  16. Did someone say porn!!
    I am feeling like my zorch has wilted! It is hot and humid here in Mich!Today is Mr Mary's Birthday and he chose the Casino over my Zorch! Well, I did insist lol!! I am off to pick up a pizza. I sure ain't cooking today

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  17. SHIRLEY - Just getting ready to take Jake to his game. I really like your profile pic....it's a beautiful one of you and your Mum!!

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  18. Hi--no more Queen of the mountain. Shirley, I extend my sympathy to u and ur family.

    Tomorrow I go to the dr aand get at least the first cast off and then see what happens.

    Hope u all r doing well

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  19. so....I brought sunshine to SoCal~ Apparently it's been cold and rainy all week and at 3:30pm (the same time my plane landed) the sun came out~ It's beautiful!!~

    THEN.....the earth shook! I didn't feel it, none of us did here at home...but my SIL did at work and so did my brother at his work and my sister at hers~ I think it's a work thing~

    Shirley~ I can't take you up on the porn.....my parents frown on that kind of thing....wait til i get to my bros house~ :)~

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  20. I'll bbl~ I have to clean up something on aisle 7~ and then....i think there are 487 emails waiting for me on FB!!!!!!!~ good thing MY phone wasn't on vibrate! ijs~

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  21. This picture was my mum. Not the woman I saw yesterday with the thin, straight hair on a balding head full of lumps. A woman who's left eye was swollen shut, A huge egg on her forehead, drool dripping down the side of her mouth and whose speech was difficult to understand. No, THIS picture was my mother.

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  22. Carol, you captured it so well! Shirley, hugs and kisses on the loss of your Mom. We're here for ya!

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  23. SHIRLEY...My deepest and sincere condolences to you.

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  24. Tina.. I have to agree you are certainly the most prettiest today!

    :)

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  25. Shirley..

    That pic is a great pic of your mom, so very sweet~~

    I feel as you do, they are not what happens to them at the end, they are what they were from the beginning..

    ♥♥

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  26. Shirley, that is a lovely picture of your mum!

    You look a lot like her, I think.

    (((hugs)))

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  27. Thanks everyone for all the comments on my blog.. it came from the heart!

    FREE PORN.. where the heck have I been..

    LOL Mary on Zorch..

    LOL Tina on going to your bro's for pron

    Dianne.. I will continue to send you good healing thoughts, think of you daliy..

    MO.. any change on JoAnn?

    I think I hit the jackpot, no not the kind Mary and Mr Mary hits.. btw Happy Birthday Mr Mary..

    I was browsing on Nordstrom.com on Sunday nite, for special occasions dresses.. Plus size.. I came across two that I thought were pretty. They were $98 each and I told myself it was worth a try, even tho I doubted I would like them on me.. They are both black, one pleated and flowee, and one with ruffles that graduate down, (not overwhelming ruffles) at the end of the ruffles are silver studs.. OMG, I love them both, I am in complete shock, I had no idea I would like them as much as I do.. Now I have to pick which one.. I am gong to my SIL this weekend to try them on for her and see which one she likes. I am just very glad my search for a dress for IS#1 wedding is over..

    They both fit perfect, just the top on both have to be adjusted as the underarm part is to low.. easy peasy for a tailor

    Yay for me.. finally something good!

    This Sunday is the wedding shower, I am going to wear a summer dress that I have had..

    The wedding is creeping up fast..

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  28. Mary..

    wow your comment gave me the chills, that was very special.. ♥♥♥

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  29. as per Shirley's request.. lets start the free porn..

    Debbie does Dallas

    or

    Dallas does Debbie

    ;O)

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  30. OK I was in bed for an hour and a half with no sleep. Grrrrr! Where is Mr. Sandman? Mary stop hogging him!!! I want to go to sleep. Now I'm sitting here eating a banana at 1:10 in the morning.

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  31. Carol, If you like both dresses so much, why not just keep both of them? It's so hard to find something you like that much and you deserve to treat yourself. That's my 2 cents worth of advice. :)

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  32. Shirley, Reading works for me. As soon as I start to read my book, my eyes get heavy. Did you try counting sheep? That never works for me, but I guess it does for some people.

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  33. (flys in door looking disheveled)

    did I hear my name? Did I miss the free porn?

    I have been running late to everything all day!!

    I can't seem to get myself dressed for a wedding and a funeral!! Go ahead! Try it! ITS HARD!!!

    Shirley....glad to see ur holding up.....happy to see that photo of your Mum......I agree with you...and Carol put it well..."they are not what happens to them at the end, they are what they were from the beginning.."

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  34. YAY.. Shirley is giving out Free Porn, she is eating a banana..

    ;O)

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  35. Sacbarb..

    You read my mind, I think I will keep them both, for the price it is totally well worth it.. Just have to pick which one to wear..

    Thanks for your 2cents.

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  36. Dee...

    Nope you did not miss a thing, the porn just started.. Check out Shirley eating a banana at 1AM..

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  37. CAROL!!! It wasn't THAT kind of a banana!!!! *she says blushing*

    btw Carol I think you should wear the black one. That's my 2 cents worth!

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  38. DeeDee whats so hard about dressing for both a wedding and a funneral? Just make sure your outfit is half black and half white. At the wedding make sure the white side is always showing to people and at the funeral the black side. Easy! Problem solved! Your welcome!

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  39. will you look at that....start handing out porn, and every Tom's hairy dick shows up!!~

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  40. okay.....shhhhhhh....i can't believe this....i REALLY can't...but my nephew gets to come home with me......for however long he wants.....prolly just a week...but dang me! I can't believe she agreed to let him go! I'm so excited~ Wish I didn't work 6 days in a row!~

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  41. Shirley..

    I know your tricks, you can't fool me..

    Tina..

    So fun.. I think? how old is he?

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  42. Shirley..

    LOL on me picking the black one..

    and

    LOL on wearing white and black to a funeral..

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  43. he's 10~ :D

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    FIRST!!!!! :D (i won't be around tomorrow morning!~)

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