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Monday, May 26, 2008

God Bless the USA


Sung by Lee Greenwood

today, memorial day is a day
of remembrance, it is a day
we remember all who have
fought for the freedoms of
our country from WW1 and
beyond, today we thank them!

mek has written our memorial
day blog, she shares a story
with us, that is dear to her heart


GOD BLESS THE USA

by mek in az

I don’t know about you guys, but this song always makes me tear up. As I have shared before, my father dedicated his life (and sacrificed his family) for his country and now rests peacefully in Ft. Logan National Cemetery in Denver, Colorado.

I wanted to share a story that I have a hard time relaying to people, because I can never finish it without crying… (So please forgive me – I get passionate about this kind of stuff)..

In October of 2003, I was sitting in the Tucson International Airport waiting to catch a flight to Virginia to attend my uncle’s funeral. All of a sudden, the terminal was full of young men and women in uniform. I knew instantly that these young people were being deployed, which made me say a little prayer that they all be safe and return unharmed. (Yes, I started crying – heck, I was an emotional wreck anyway)… I just happened to overhear a conversation between several of the young men and I want to share that with you.

These men were talking about saying goodbye to their families and seeing life thru the eyes of their children. The one that stuck with me the most and really got me thinking – was about the four year old twins that were SO upset that daddy would not be there for Halloween, the mom had made them special costumes and Daddy wasn’t going to get to see them and go collect candy – and the young man went on to say – what his children didn’t understand was that after Halloween would be their birthday, then Thanksgiving, then Christmas – but thru a child’s eyes, they just look to one event at a time – they don’t “see” the future.. (Oh, to be young again, right??!!)

By this time – I was a total basket case – and one of the soldiers looked at me and said, “ma’am are you okay” ( I hate that he called me ma’am – but we were brought up that way) –and I said – don’t worry about me – I just want to thank you for all you do and be safe. He replied, “Ma’am, I will be okay. I’m going over there to fight for your freedom and whether I come home like this (and waved his hands up and down his torso) or in a box – this is what I signed up to do? It’s all good” And with that – their flight was boarding.

I have no idea what happened to any of those young men and women. Whether they got to spend another Halloween, birthday or Christmas with their families again or if they came home in “a box” and are buried in a National Cemetery like my father is.

All over the country, a boy scout troop or two spent this week putting our Nations Flag on each and every headstone to honor our fallen heroes and TAPS will be played at sunset.(can’t listen to that either). So, while everyone is enjoying a day off of work, cooking out, playing volleyball or swimming in the backyard, I ask that you please take a moment to say a little thank you and a prayer for all those that have lost their lives so that we can have the freedoms we do today.

Thank you for indulging me today – and on a lighter note – what is everyone going to do today?

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Zona said...

Yes..MEK..God Bless the USA..and thank you for a beautiful blog.

Zona said...

I want to wish everyone a safe Memorial Day. Mr. Z has to work, so there won't be any BBQ's at our house. I think I'll make hotdogs on the George Forman grill and pretend!

Thank you again MEK. I will definately say a prayer for the brave men and women who have fought for this country..and those who continue to fight for it.

Maureen said...

Oh MEK..how beautiful and geniune and raw that was. I can feel the pain it brings you and I, too would have been a basket case. Don't thank us for indulging you...THANK YOU for sharing that. I know it wasn't easy for you to do.

I am going to a family bbq and I will be saying prayers for the vet's past and present and their families that also sacrificed so much so they could fight for our freedoms.

I will post another post about his service (it is kinda funny!!)

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you my dear.

Maureen said...

ZONA...good morning to you! If you lived here, you could join our family bbq. But hot dogs on the George Foreman actually sounds pretty good ;)

East Bay J said...

Good morning,

What a lovely story MEK. I am so glad you shared that with us.

My brother has served in Iraq twice, so I understand how it feels, wondering if your loved one will come home alive or in a box.

I am grateful for those who serve our country.

No big plans today, my huz is working. I will go to the gross-ry store, and have a couple other errands to run.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Memorial Day.

Congrats on first Zona!

Lynn D said...

Morning Glories!

Zona your up??? Congrats on first.

MEK I woke up this morning thinking about this holiday and what it means.

For alot of us it is an extra day for a long weekend and the kick off to summer. To so many others it is a day of rememberance for our Men and Women who serve in the armed forces.

My family also has designated it as a day to go to the grave sites of family members who have passed away.

Anyway I woke up feeling a little sad and depressed and maybe some guilt. Why?

Torn between enjoying the long weekend and really taking the time to reflect on the meaning of this day.

Thank you for your wonderful blog. It is a true tribute to the many that serve this country.

Bless them all!

East Bay J said...

Hi Mo! Good to see you!

East Bay J said...

Hi Lynn!

Lynn D said...

Good Morning Mo and EBJ!

We are doing very little today. Maybe cook some steaks later.

Woke up not feeling so good. I hope I am not catching what some of our other owls have!

Hope those of you not feeling well feel better today!

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning ZonaBaby - Once again first on the blog and first in my heart. Haven't you gone to bed yet or are you up early?

Good Morning Maureen, East Bay J, and Lynn. I have my usual boring comment, "I will be back in ten minutes to read the blog"

Maureen said...

EBJ...good morning. Please thank your brother for me. I will keep his safety in my thoughts and prayers.

LYNN...Sorry you feel bad. Take care of you. Tell your son-in-law I am grateful for the sacrifices he makes as a soldier for all of us. And tell your daughter I send her hugs, too.

Part of my first post disappeared. I wanted to say my dad fought in WWII.

Zona said...

HI MO!! George Foreman does a pretty good job on hotdogs! Thank you for the invite...I'd be there in a heartbeat!

Good morning EBJ..thank your brother for me.

LYNND: I'm up...you have mail! I sure hope you feel better soon.

Maureen said...

TINKA...you are anything but boring! It is nice to know somethings stay the same in this ever changing world.

LYNN...I forgot to say that visiting the graves of those that passed is a wonderful idea. I think I shall stop at the cemetary on my way to the bbq. Thanks for the idea.

Zona said...

TINKA: ummm..actually I haven't gone to sleep yet..but I will soon!

Maureen said...

Ok, I know you have been waiting with bated breath for my little (yeah, right!) story!!!

My dad wanted to enlist in WWII but he wasn't old enough. So, in his infinite wisdom, he exchanged identities with his older brother! My dad, as we knew him was named Harry and my Uncle was George. Well, dad was born George and my uncle born Harry. My father also decided that when he enlisted, he needed a middle name so he adopted the middle initial M...as in Mouse! so his army buddies called him mouse!

Dad didn't do a lot of real fighting, he clerked and cooked. He was cleaning potatoes and one of his buddies was keeping him company and cleaning his rifle...yep...shot him in the ass!!

Then when my father passed away, it was major confusion as to what name to put on the headstone...his birth name of George (but uncle "George" was still alive) or his adopted name of Harry. They decided that, in English, his stone would say Harry but in Hebrew it says George! And vice-versa for my uncle when he passed away...George in English and Harry in Hebrew!!

My family is crazed...I know exactly where I get it from ;) ;)

Tinkatia said...

Back again with my Tropicana. No free ones have arrived yet but I will keep trying. Off to read the blog.

Lynn D said...

Zona: I will check my mail in a bit. Moving slow this morning.

Mo: I will let SIL! I loved your story! Sounds like my family!

I usually visit the grave a week or two after memorial day as traffic is just to crazy. My Dad and many Aunts and Uncles go today.

Hi Tinka: You are never boring!!

Lynn D said...

Zona: I checked and there does seem to be a problem with MS and the player. I could not find an announcement from Tom about what is going on. I don't even know where you would look.

Geez why can't they just leave things alone??

ibebold said...

Good morning OWLETTES!!!!

ZONA!!!! 1st!!!!!! Congrats!!!!

Mo...Morning!! Funny about the names... I bet that was confusing!!

EBJ-- many thanks to your son!!!


LynnD--
Sorry you are feeling bad....
Feel better real soon!!

Morning Sweet Pink Tink!!!!

MEK... you know you made me cry this morning...

GOD BLESS THE U.S.A.!!!!

Remeber our fallen today... and thenk those that still serve!!!!

Hope every one has a wonderful holiday...
I plan on going on a photo safari...
in search of cool pics.... will know it when i see it and will pull and take pictures!!!!

Be safe all...

Happy Memorial Day!!!

sacBarb said...

Good morning Owls. I think the rain has stopped and we are going to have a very nice day here in Sac.

MEK: That was a very touching blog and I had to stop in the middle to go get Kleenex. I truly felt the passion about which you wrote. I have seen that same scene in airports and have had much the same thoughts. I, too, always say a prayer when I see someone in uniform waiting for their flight. Their final destination may not be overseas, but they are just as important to our freedom because they support the soldiers who are fighting. Thanks for reminding us.

ibebold said...

I meant THANK.. them...

And I will Pull Over....
to take pictures...

Tinkatia said...

Mek - I loved your blog. It made me cry but it is a good cry. You wrote it so beautifully. Every time I see a picture of a group of Service men or women, whether it is on T.V. or in a magazine I wonder how many of them will never come home or come home with their lives never being the same. It breaks my heart to see the wives and children crying as the men leave. Then there are the husbands and children crying as the women leave. I couldn't believe it when I saw that mothers had to leave their nursing babies and small children and go to war. It's too much for me to handle. When will it ever end?

East Bay J - I hope your brother does not have to go back to Iraq. Is there a limit to how many times they can be sent?

Maureen - I loved your story about your brother. I wish I could meet you sometime. I think we could have a lot of laughs. I loved your picture comment this morning - my first free carton of Tropicana. Maybe the Tropicana company will see that if they don't see my ad for it every morning.

Lynn - I hope you feel better today. I have a dentist appointment and that doesn't exactly make me happy either.

After reading the blog and comments I feel we in Canada should be on holidays today too but it is a regular work day for us. Our Remembrance Day on Nov. 11 is similar to your Memorial day. You have Veteran's Day on Nov. 11. How does Memorial day differ from Veteran's Day in the States? Just wondering?
We have our boys fighting in Afghanistan so I guess there are prayers needed in both countries.

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Ibebold - A photo safari. Now that's the kind of safari I would like to go on. Pictures are the only things I like to see shot.

Good Morning Sacbarb - I needed Kleenex too. Between the song, the pictures and Mek's beautiful tribute it 'knocked me out' for a few minutes.

Tinkatia said...

I am off to answer messages. Be back later.

Tinkatia said...

#25

sacBarb said...

I forgot to say that I can't get through that song without tears. In fact, I tear up at the National Anthem, too.

Zona: Congrats on being the early (or late for you) bird. Rest well today.

Mo: My Dad changed his name unofficially when he came to the US from Italy because people had trouble saying his Italian name. He called himself Jerry and everyone knew him as that, but on all his legal documents he had to use his birth name, Ciro. We had the same dilemma about the headstone, but at least we didn't have to consider anyone else when making the decision.

EBJ: Thank you brother for me also. I so appreciate all that the military does for us, but on the other hand, I am so glad none of my sons ever joined. I know that is selfish, but those are my true feelings.

LynnD: Thank our SIL, too. It has to be so hard on your whole family. I pray everyday for the safety of all our troops.

Tinka: Tropicana is the best orange juice. It is the kind I always buy.

IBB: Thanks for sharing your experience from yesterday. I never knew about the flag burning ceremony.

Have a safe and wonderful day everyone.

MEK in AZ said...

Twenty- SEVEN!!!

sacBarb said...

LynnD: Of course I meant YOUR SIL. My fingers are stiff this morning and I need more coffee..

MEK in AZ said...

Happy Memorial Day!!

GOod Morning!!

Zona, MO, EBJ, Lynn D, Tinka, IBB, and SacBarb - THANK YOU for your kind words this morning (I was a little nervous about the blog!!)

Today - our community holds a tri-athelon which starts at 6:30a.m. with the swim in the lake - then the bike part and finally the run!!

We missed the swim this a.m, since I am still not feeling well. but the runners are finally making their way up the path behind our house!!

Mr. MEK just left to play in a golf tournament today! My mother needs help with some Medicare papers she got in the mail and does not understand - so I will try to help her with that..

No big plans - i am just going to be lazy and hopefully feel better!!

Thoughts and prayers to all those lost their lives in their service to our country!!

I hope everyone has an excellent day!!
:-)

MEK in AZ said...

Tinka - Memorial Day is in honor of those who lost their lives and Veterans Day is to honor those that served but still alive.

Hope that helps.

MEK in AZ said...

SacBarb - I also cry during the National Anthem....

OH - if anyone ever gets the chance - I think the most emotional thing I have ever experienced (with the exception of my father's funeral) was the changing of the guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetary!!!

night.owls.sb said...

MEK:
Your blog today was beautiful, it was written from the heart, I will take time today, to remember our fallen!

Thank you ever so much for sharing such a raw emotion!

You are the best! :O)

MEK in AZ said...

EBJ - THANK YOU to your brother!! (((HUGS)))

MEK in AZ said...

cpgem - thank you and you are welcome!!

MEK in AZ said...

Lynn - I also hope that you aren't catching "this" - hope you feel better!!

night.owls.sb said...

I did not read the comments, as I am running around like a crazy person!

30 Italian peeps are a lot to feed!
And of course there must be drinks, what a pain in the ass to fill coolers with soda, beer, water!

Plus we have a martini bar!

My mom forgot we did not have grated cheese, can you imagine a Italian household with no grated cheese?

So I am off the store, yet again!

MEK in AZ said...

IBB - have fun "hunting" the perfect photo op!!

Thanks also for sharing the flag burning ceremony with us - I had no idea -

MO - I loved your story - thanks for sharing..

I will get to "visit" my dad when we go to Colorado in July - I feel as if we have abandoned him.

night.owls.sb said...

Mek:
Love that video, it was a great idea to use Lee Greenwood's song!

Perfect!

MEK in AZ said...

cpgem - OMG - no grated cheese!! OH MY!!!!

:-)

have fun!!!

Okay - I'll be back later - need to go lay down!!

Got another coating of Mr. VICKS!!

MEK in AZ said...

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night.owls.sb said...

I want to thank Just_Lin as well, she found that amazing quote, I have put it up on the side bar of the main page of the blog!

night.owls.sb said...

Everyone
Have a great day!

I will check back later tonite, when my feet will be pounding!

:O)

sacBarb said...

Carol: I CANNOT imagine an Italian house without grated cheese. Have fun entertaining all the Italians.

Tinkatia said...

Mek - No need to be nervous. It was beautiful. Thank you for explaining the difference between those two days. I have always wondered because our Nov. 11 is to honour all the fallen soldiers who have died in all the wars. Nov. 11 was the day the first world war ended so I always thought your Veteran's Day was similar. I should have known better as Veterans are still alive. Even at my age one can learn something new.

SacBarb - I cry at all the anthems too, even at the Olympics when it's a country I don't know.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Mek you wrote a very touching blog. Thanks for sharing the story. I wish everyone celebrating, a Happy Memorial Day. Lets all take a little time to remember.

♥♥love you Dad♥♥

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Shirley - Nice to see you today. I am off to the dentist. It will be a nice day after that I hope. Have fun today.

Jus-Lin - I loved the quote you found and thank you Carol for posting it.

See you all this afternoon. Have a happy and safe Memorial Day.

Tinkatia said...

I seem to be alone so I think I will march by myself to give me courage at the dentist. Are you still there Shirley?

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50 Wheee---- I am off to the dentist. See you later.

whabbear said...

Just Lin: I would amend those noble sentiments by removing just one word from the following section

"And in that time when men decide and feel safe to call the war insane, take one moment to embrace those gentle heroes you left behind."

to read:

"And in that time when men decide and feel safe to call war insane, take one moment to embrace those gentle heroes you left behind."

Maybe more than just one moment. MEK, I salute your Dad and all the vets who are no longer with us. And I remember my Dad's cousin, Len McCann, who was shot down over Germany in 1944.

Tinkatia said...

Well I think I messed that march up. 49 posted twice by accident, I deleted it so #50 became #51. I need practice at this marching.

Tinkatia said...

Whabbear - Good Morning. You snuck in while I was marching to my own drummer and not doing a very good job of it. How are you this fine day?

Tinkatia said...

Whabbear - I am sorry about your cousin. In just one more year he would have been coming home to his family and would have had so many more years ahead of him. My grandfather was gassed in the second world war. He survived but his health was never good again. There are millions of stories out there. All of them make me cry.

Tinkatia said...

My post was #55. Whabbear - Did you fly in and out again? Have a great day my friend. I will too once I get home from the dentist.

Lynn D said...

popping in for a sec.

Sacbarb your new owl is freaking me out!

I keep thinking Phantom of the Owlpra!

I just wanted to let all of you know my SIL is home in the states now.

They are being transferred here to WA and should be arriving in July.

That is the good news.

The bad news is that once they get here my daughter and he may be getting a divorce. The toll of 3 deployments has taken too much from them.

It is a long and sad story and I won't get into on the blog as I do not want to ruin the beautiful blog that MEK has written. As this subject makes me very sad and angry.

Jodi said...

MEK - Such a beautiful blog.....I could tell it came straight from the heart!! And that song......I can't get thru listening to it without crying. Thank you.....and I want to salute all the men and women that have given the ultimate sacrifice so that I may enjoy all the freedoms that I have.

I just got home from work, but had a rare opportunity to thank a whole van full of vets.....on their way to various Memorial Day Ceremonies....I thanked each and every one of them.

I hope everyone enjoys the rest of the day!!

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

MEK...Thank you for the blog today. I know how much it means to you. Thank you for sharing.

I'm at work which most of you know is located in a historic Fort area. A whole lotta vets on motorcycles rode by about an hour ago. They all had their USA flags and black POW/MIA flags flying behind them. Quite a site. Not sure where the parade route is, but I'm always here on Memorial Day and it never passes by, so they must have been headed to the staging area. Would be nice if the parade did come by.

My thoughts go out to all of our friends in Iowa and Minnesota. I hope all of you are safe.

Amicus said...

Good Morning Owls!

MEK: What a powerful and emotional blog! Beautifully written! Thank you! My thoughts and prayers are with all who serve or have served and their families.

We're having a family BBQ this afternoon. I'm in charge of bringing the homemade ice cream mixture and all the supplies to make it. :)

Waving HI to Zona, Mo, EBJ, Lynn, Tinka, IBB, SacBarb, Carol, Shirley, Whabbear, Jodi, BarbWA, and all the Owls who fly in later today!

Happy Memorial Day!

East Bay J said...

Hey!

MEK hope you are feeling better!

Shirley good to see you, as always!

Carol, no grated cheese!! OMG. My dads side of the family are Italian so I totally understand that dilemma!!

Tink I am not sure if there is a limit to the number of times someone can be deployed.

My brother was in Iraq over a year the first time (Desert Storm), and about a year the second.

The bad thing the second time was that he had gotten divorced and had custody of the 2 kids. He really had no choice but to go, as if you don't you lose all the time you've put in (that is the way I understood it from what he said).

It doesn't matter who you are or what your situation is. You are called to go, and you go.

We hope and pray he does not have to go back. The first time, he was in artillery and was on the front lines.

There was really no internet then and phone calls were infrequent. Mail took weeks so we seldom heard from him. It was a very difficult time, probably the darkest time I can ever remember.

My heart breaks when I see the news reporting yet more deaths. I feel so lucky that our family did not have to be one of those who lost a loved one.

My moms dad was killed in WWII and she has been to the Phillipines twice to visit his grave (he's buried in the American Cemetary in Manila).

Here is an organization she found by chance and has become very involved in, if anyone is interested. It's for the orphans of men killed in WWII.
http://www.awon.org/awmain.shtml

We were supposed to go to a wedding today in Sacramento, at a winery. Huz had to work and they were short, so we are not going.

Whab, I like how you amended that quote.

Just_Lin said...

MEK Thank you so much for writing today's blog. It was absolutely perfect!

My grandparents met by being pen pals during WWI. He was a "lonely soldier" wanting someone to write to. My father served in the Navy in WWII. He was very upset that their little mascot dog got swept overboard during rough seas. My second husband was in the Naval Reserves for 42 years and served active duty in Viet Nam. His grandson was in the Navy for several years then enlisted in the Army. He was serving in Kuwait when he tore up his knee while getting out of a chair! He's back in the States awaiting surgery. A boy I used to date was killed in Viet Nam. His name is on the Wall. He was only 21.

Maureen I loved the story about your dad's name.

Lynn D I'm so sorry about your daughter and SIL. So many families are being destroyed by this war. Much more casualties than we will ever know about.

Tinkatia said...

I am procrastinating. I should be getting ready to go to the D.

Lynn - I am so sorry about your daughter's situation. Divorce is so sad for all members of both families but my thoughts are with your daughter today.

Jodi - I cry when I hear that song too.

Barbara - That must have been quite a sight with all those flags.

Amicus - My prayers join yours for all the families of those who have served or are serving now. Their lives will never be the same.
Are you making the ice cream?

East Bay J - Thanks for explaining the story about your brother. It must have been such a hard time. I can only imagine it and that is bad enough.

VIG - Have a good day today Sweetie.

Now I am off for sure as I am almost late.

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

OM*FRIGGEN*G!!!!!!

An agent is meeting clients w/their kids! Argh!!!! Get a friggen babysitter people! They are so loud!

Just_Lin said...

I woke up this morning to find that one of the cats, probably Tex, made quite a mess in the litter box, then stepped in it, shook his leg, flinging it across the hall floor and part way up a wall, drying like bits of cement. I had to step around this carefully in order to get to the bathroom. I refused to clean it up until I at least had my coffee.

Maureen said...

LYNN...I don't have words. Just please accept my {{hugs}} and my shoulder and my ear if you need them. I will continue to say prayers that once they make the move, it will put things back in order for your daughter, SIL and grandchildren. Maybe a new start like that is just what they need.

Too often, the emotional and psychological effects of fighting on the soldiers and their families are not remembered enough.

{{hugs}} my dear friend

Bon'O said...

MEK~~Thank you so very much for today's blog. I'm tempted to simply leave my post at that, as I find myself really struggling to 'celebrate' this holiday today, and have cried more times than I can count this weekend. It's not made any easier after just hearing on CNN that, just at Arlington alone, there are 30 funerals a day Monday through Friday. For so many reasons, this is the first year I find myself saddened even more for the physically and emotionally maimed survivors and their families than those killed in action in our many wars. Why and for how long must it go on?

LYNND~~You know, from our ongoing messages, how much I'll be thinking of you all as your daughter and SIL return to Washington. While the third year-plus deployment to Iraq proved too much for my own daughter and SIL's almost 10-year marriage and as she prepares to begin a new civilian marriage next month, all of our hearts are with ex-SIL Kyle, who remains in Baghdad today.

Saturday, I 'visited' my parents at the cemetery, placing flowers and polishing the granite headstone, with special attention and a flag next to the Marine insignia next to my father's name (WWII~First Marine Div, Guadalcanal/Iwo Jima). I'll return this afternoon for the Flag Ceremony/Taps.

To all of you who have family members who have served, were lost, or are serving: Thank them for me today and always.

sacBarb said...

MEK: Sharon and I were at Arlington about 3 years ago for the changing of the guard. It is a very moving ceremony.

LynnD: LOL @ my phantom of the owlpra! Maybe I should change it to a friendlier owl. At least he doesn't have a gun!

kahonugrl said...

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Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

YAY! I came back from lunch and there is no one here! No more kids running amuck!

OK....I have THE worst canker sore on my tongue. And of course it has to rub on my teeth. I hate these. I must have bitten the side of my tongue in the middle of the night a few days ago. I can't talk with out sounding like I'm drunk. I'm so glad it's a quiet day at work. I'm hoping by tomorrow it will be better. Ugh. I have tried holding an asprin to it, and have been using Kank-A since yesterday. I don't think that actually heals it though. Just kinda covers it and numbs it. Anyone have any tips???

Just_Lin said...

BarbWa Oh, I hate those things! How can something so little be so annoying? Maybe rinsing with warm saltwater will help it heal faster.

Tina~in_ut said...

MEK~ beautiful blog~ I love how passionate you are about the subject! I got to hear Lee Greenwood sing that song at a NASCAR race....it's so powerful~

Zona~ Congrats on #1~ Hope you are sleeping now~

MoHo~ loved your story~

kgrl~ congrats on 69~

J/L~ you cracked me up about your cat~

Sacbarb~ A Knights Tale~ your owl is perfect~

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

OK Lynn....gonna go try the saltwater trick. I always gag, but no one is here so who cares! Maybe I have out-grown the gag reflex on the saltwater!

Tina~in_ut said...

oh crap Barb in wa~ forgot to tell you...I just put salt straight on it...kills for a minute..but gets rid of it quick~

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

OK Lynn....not even gonna say what that tasted like....

Tina....are you serious because I'm about to do that. I'm desperate.

They are doing Civil War reinactments across the street. And they are shooting off cannons! It's shaking the friggen windows!

Tina~in_ut said...

barb~ totally serious...and I put a lot on...well...enough to cover it~ remember...it's gonna kill~

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

OK....if you hear me scream....Blame Tina!

Bon'O said...

BarbWa: Careful~~Don't let a cannon scare you into biting your tongue! One option = Swish & spit 50/50 mix of Milk of Magnesia & Benadryl Allergy liquid 4-6 x/day.

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

HOLEY FRIGGEN SON OF A ALL THATS HOLEY FOR FUCKS SAKE!!!!!!

OOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUCH!!!!!!!!!!!

And on top of that I'm drooling like a baby seeing a tit.....

Tina~in_ut said...

shit barb! I told you it would hurt! :)~

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

Gee Tina....ya got a couple jalapinos I can suck on too????

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

I OK. I was looking at my tongue to see if the hole was going all the way through it, because you know, THAT'S HOW IT FEELS RIGHT NOW! Anyway, there is a plant under the mirror and I totally drooled all over the plant. It's just came right out. No stopping it.

Tina~in_ut said...

Dang it woman....I don't mean to laugh...but you are making me laugh!~ i have to get in the shower now....you're on your own~ try closing your mouth! :D

JoeyfromSC said...

That is a fantastic song Mek! I have always loved it..I'm going to read your story in a bit..I can tell it's gonna be a tear-jerker! Thanks for sharing!

I hope you all are having a great day!!

Tina~in_ut said...

shit...did you hear that? Thunder!!! Better really get off of here!

JoeyfromSC said...

Oh I hate those barbara_wa!

Hope you get rid of it..You and Tina are cracking me up!!

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

Glad someone can laugh at it Tina!
:-)

It's all good. I just want the dang thing to heal and go away. It always happen in the same spot. I just always bite it there.

ugh.....

JoeyfromSC said...

Whabbear, I hear talk of sucking and gag reflex!! WHERE ARE YOU!? ROFLMAO

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Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

and you too joey! laugh away! it's all good!

sacBarb said...

Barb in WA: Never put an aspirin directly on your tongue or cheek. It will make your mouth look like hamburger and it will feel worse. I used to be a dental assistnat and I saw too many patients that did that.

JoeyfromSC said...

90 are y'all marching with me? lol

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laptop is slow..WTH? lol
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I see MEK in the bushes LMAO

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Congrats sacbarb! outta nowhere haha

sacBarb said...

just swooped in there

JoeyfromSC said...

hehe barb

Oh and Zona congrats on first, but I had NO CLUE you were cheating with MY husband Matthew M.!:(:(

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

Really sac??? That always seemed to work for me. Just not this time.

sacBarb said...

Joey: Zona only cheats on Matthew with Hugh (Huge) Grant)

kahonugrl said...

Barbwa:

If the brineing of your tongue fails to work, at the drug store you will find something called "Glyoxide". It comes in a small white bottle with blue lettering with a dropper looking top to it. It is medicated and works like hydrogen peroxide. You put a few drops in your mouth and swish it around like mouth wash. AND the plus thing is it doesnt hurt!!!!!

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

OK...I will talk to you guys later...or type....since I still can't talk....and ya'll can't hear me anyway....

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

Thanks for the tip k-girl. I will look for it.

kahonugrl said...

It is made specifically for canker sores and sores of the mouth...only costs a few bucks.

Tinkatia said...

I am here but I have not ingenious solutions for canker sores sorry. I just woke up and I don't think I have answers for anything. Just wanted you to know I was here. If anyone wants to say Hi, I will say Hi back. That's about all I am up to creatively right now. Hope everyone is planning a great BBQ for dinner. I will live vicariously through you.

Tinkatia said...

I just read my post and I sound like a sad little owl looking for a friend. I really didn't mean it to sound so pathetic. My owl sort of has that look at all times. Maybe he needs a make-over.

Lynn D said...

Ok I haven't finished reading all the comments where I left off...

But had to ask Bono WTF?

Milk of Magnesia and Benedryl??? How in the hell does that help a canker sore unless it is in your ass???

I would be shitting in my sleep.

Lynn D said...

BarbWa: Try putting some cinnamon on it! I don't know if this works but I thought you could experiment!

I know if you put it on your lips it makes them plumper! LMAO

Lynn D said...

If all else fails close the shop and head home, crack open the tequila and you just won't care!

PS Let me know if that plant gets bigger. Wondering if saliva is a fertilizer! ROFLMAO

Lynn D said...

Barb I was just thinking... In My Big Fat Greek Wedding Windex worked for everything....It might be worth a shot!!! ROFLMAO SNRT

Lynn D said...

Sorry Barb I don't mean to laugh at your pain that would be mean. I have had two beers and this is best laugh I have had all week!

After reading Bon's post I had to go change my undies! Crap now I have to do a load of whites so I have some for tomorrow!

God I am cracking myself up!

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

You guys are hilarious! And it still hurts. I'm going to stop by the store and see if I can find k-girls stuff.

I'm so bored at work. I've only had about 15 calls and I have won 22 Free Cell games in a row. Should I keep going?????

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

windex.....Bwaaaa!!!!!!!

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23 in a row.........

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24 in a row............

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well crap....24.

Lynn D said...

oh when the Saint's go marching in! LOL

Going for my third beer and 15th pee break!

Barb hang in there!

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125 wahoo now I can pee!

MEK in AZ said...

ROFLMAO!!

I have been catching up on the comments and I was going to be SO serious -

AND THEN - I come across our poor Barb in WA and her little problem!!

I can NOT stop laughing!!

Barb - I am so sorry - but I can just picture you trying all these things !!

OH MY!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for the laugh...

Now - I need to go gather my thoughts again!!!

:-)

Lynn D said...

Whew!!

MEK no serious aloud!!!

MEK in AZ said...

Cpgem, Shirley, Whabby, Jodi, Barb in WA, Amicus, Just Lin, Bono, Tina and Joey.. thank you guys, also, for the kind words...

The neighbors are grilling the old fashioned way with characol and lighter fluid - LOVE that smell - reminds me of when my dad grilled outside -

He was the BEST at cooking on the fire..

MEK in AZ said...

Lynn D - how many fingers am I holding up??!!

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LOL - I will just play now..

I've been sleeping most of the day - Mr. MEK woke me up when he called to say he was on his way home..

Never did make to my mom's to go over those medicare papers - but they, too will wait for another day!!

Just_Lin said...

BarbWa and LynnD You guys are f***ing hilarious!!!! You made me cry and pee! Now, if I would have farted, it would have been a trifecta.

Lynn D said...

Ha ha! I have been playing games on Yahoo and I have to say the more beers I drink the better I get!

Lynn D said...

MEK 133!

Justlin: I would loan you some undies but mine are all in the wash!

Wait Wait I have a pair of bikini's I bought Mr. Lynn D years ago and he won't wear! I'll send those express!

MEK in AZ said...

Just Lin - you are cracking me up!!

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

LOL J/L!!!!
And it's ok MEK....laugh away. You should have seen me when I did the salt like Tina said. I'm still drooling! These stulpid things seem to last for like 3 or 4 days. I friggen hate them. Seriously, if I could get a plastic surgeon to agree to cut off like 1/2 an inch of each side of my tongue I would be happy....well after the damn thing healed...which may end up being more painful than the canker sore....but I wouldn't be able to eat....so I would lose weight....maybe I should really consider this.....

Just_Lin said...

LynnD Thanks for the kind offer, but I do have a drawer full of clean ones. I may need them if things continue on this way. When BarbWa goes to the drugstore, I hope she remembers to keep her mouth shut. A trail of saliva would be very embarrassing.

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

stulpid??? see....i told you i couldn't talk!

MEK in AZ said...

LMAO - Barb in WA - yes, you are typing like you talk!!

LOL

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Lynn D said...

MEKL I love the smell of a real charcoal bbq, I like the smell of gasoline too! Anyway I have convinced Mr. Lynn D to buy a charcoal bbq er for this season. Just tastes better than the propane. INMHO

I know they say that charcoal is bad for you but what the hell so is everything else.... Now where was I going with this?

Oh yeah anyway we were going to go pick up a bbq today and well we said to hell with it and I went and got beer and Papa Murphys now we have had beer and are trying to see who will break the inertia first and actually put them in the oven!

Barb I agree with justlin! You might want to fashion a Bib before you hit the drug store!

Lynn D said...

oh crap I have to pee again!

Just_Lin said...

LynnD Beer does that to you.

MEK in AZ said...

Lynn D - EXACTLY - the characol thingies make the meat more flavorful...

Put the pizzas in the oven!!!

mr. mek just got home - so I suppose I should go talk to him..
:-)

bbl...

Lynn D said...

This is for Tina. I told Mr. Lynn D about your suggestion from the previous blog about jumpin his bone. He said that was fine as long as I don't wake him up!!! ROFLMAO

The only way to wake him up anymore is to take the remote from his hand, actually it does not have to be in his hand. If I pick it up from the end table or from the arm of his chair he jumps awake and evil eye's me! WTF!!

MEK in AZ said...

just lin - mr. mek just completed your trifecta!!!

just be EXTREMELY thankful that you are NOT here!!

LOL

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NASTY - now the cat just threw up and he is upstairs, SO I have to clean it up!!

geez..........

Lynn D said...

Oh my God! MEK LMAO!

Lynn D said...

I have to say I don't know how anyone can gain weight drinking beer! Geez I keep running for the bathroom.

My stomach that I have had all day is gone. So that is a plus!

Sorry gang if I am driving you nuts! Imagine what I am like on tequila! ROFLMAO

I have to quit cracking myself up!

PS I am not cooking the pizza MEK! I went and got it.

Lynn D said...

I need to proof before I post! LMAO

Stomach ache! Tears LMAO

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

WOW MEK...Mr MEK was so bad the cat threw up????

MEK in AZ said...

LMAO - Barb - now THAT is funny!! but - you know - that damn cat threws up ALL the time!!!

Lynn - I was going to say - your stomach is gone!!

:-)

and I would LOVE to see you "on tequila"

Lynn D said...

Oh Thank god Barb is Ok!

I was just thinking Barb get your tongue out of the windex and let us know you are OK!

Bwahhhahhahh Mr. MEK so bad! OMG I may have to put on Mr. Lynn D's old bikini's

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sacBarb said...

Hi MEK: I was wondering too if the cat was in the same room as Mr. MEK

LynnD: I think they wrote a song about you...'Tequilla Makes Her Clothes Fall Off'

Tinkatia said...

I think I am all alone in the nest again. Is everyone having fantastic BBQ's right now?

Tina~in_ut said...

nope~

Tina~in_ut said...

i'm just sitting here trying not to fart, pee, poop, or throw up! :)~

Tinkatia said...

Sacbarb - Hi You are in the nest. How are you doing?

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sacBarb said...

Hi Tinka. I'm here

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Tina~in_ut said...

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh~ that was good! :)~

Tinkatia said...

Tina - You are in the nest too but I don't think I want to watch what you are doing right now.

Tina~in_ut said...

LynnD~ if you can do that while he sleeps....you've got it made, baby~ :)~

Hi tink and sacbarb~ I'm off to make dinner~

Tina~in_ut said...

lol tinka~

Tinkatia said...

I am not too swift today but I can't figure out by the comments what is going on. There is windex involved, salt and a few other things. There is the smell of gasoline and a few other smells and someone is trying to fix a hole in her mouth. I need help straightening out the facts. Anyone????

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sacBarb said...

Hi Tina. You are cooking??? Better unplug the smoke alarm

sacBarb said...

Tinka: Barb in WA is drooling and needs a bib. She may also be fertilizing a plant.

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Just_Lin said...

MEK Thank Mr. MEK for completing what I started. ROFLMAO

Tina You seem to be one of the few that has control of her bodily functions today.

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SacBarb - I have plenty of bibs Barbara can use. I will be right over.

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

OK....K-girl I found that stuff and have already used it. I will use it again right before bed. IT DID NOT HURT LIKE AN SOB TINA!!!! LMAO~! I can't believe I was that desperate to even try that. This stuff did not hurt at all. Kinda freaks me out that it says if you swallow large amounts you need to call poison control right away. Guess I won't swig the stuff like I had planned.

Hey Birders! I had a new birdie in my yard when I got home! I have never even seen one of these before. A Lazuli Bunting! So pretty! YAY! I think that was my reward for being tortured today by Tina.

whabbear said...

LOL@Joey! I'm here, but was off line for several hours as we drove from Palm Springs to Vegas. My first time here!

... and so far, I'm not impressed! We're staying at one of the big hotels, and there was an hour's wait in line to check in and then another 15 minute wait in line for an elevator!

But on the lighter side, I totally cracked up at lynn d asking:

"Milk of Magnesia and Benedryl??? How in the hell does that help a canker sore unless it is in your ass???"

STILL laughing!

MEK in AZ said...

Whabby - I agree about Vegas - I have only been there twice and each time for work conference - but those lines to check in are worse than an amusement park!!

Just_Lin said...

BarbWa How exciting! I've only seen them on a web cam that used to be set up over in Berkley. It was set up on the deck at Craig's house ( as in Craig's List). They had a bunch of different feeders and you could take "snap shots" of the birds you caught in action and keep an "album". It was pretty cool.

night.owls.sb said...

Well, my feet are pounding! I don't remember eating anything! And I am all sweaty! 80ish here today!

And I have a headache, thank goodness this is once a year!

Last two people are still here, I had to escape a moment and put my comfy sweats on.

When they leave I am going to take a COLD shower!

I will try to come back

Hope all had a good day!

I am so very tired :O(

Tina~in_ut said...

okay lynn and barbara....how in the hell do you know what kind of bird it is in the first place? I mean hell....there was a green duck and a brown duck in my backyard the other day....and all I could think of was DINNER!!!!! :)~

Lynn D said...

I have made the damn pizza and ate the damn pizza now I am sleepy.

What can I say I am truly a cheap drunk!

Will check in tomorrow morning or maybe later tonight as I suspect I will be up peeing many times!

Hmmm I wonder if this is what it feels like to have a prostrate problem?

Just_Lin said...

Tina When I started feeding birds I had to go buy a couple of books because I got so curious about what kind they were. I also have several bird sites bookmarked. It's fun to see a new one that you've never seen before.

BarbWa I have a Eurasian Dove nesting in my willow. Today I found little bits of eggshell on the ground beneath the nest.

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Just_Lin said...

Who wants to march?

Just_Lin said...

Come on!

Just_Lin said...

Let's go!

Just_Lin said...

Movin' out!

Just_Lin said...

Bring your saliva!

Just_Lin said...

Bring your birds!

Just_Lin said...

Bring your salt!

Just_Lin said...

Benadryl!

Just_Lin said...

Cinnamon!

Just_Lin said...

Plastic surgeon!

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