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Monday, July 21, 2008

Babies

by Shirley

Iteach's Baby Carolyn

What were you like as a baby? Cranky and crying all the time or happy and smiling? My Dad said I was a perfect baby...never cried for the first month until my mother pinched me to see if I would cry. My older sister Marilyn was a good baby too. She was a little over three when I was born. My brother Robert is eleven months and six days older and he was a very cranky baby. Mum has a picture of the three of us and Robert is crying. She said he fussed the whole time the photographer was there, but was fine after he left.

Do you have a baby book, or clothes from when you were a baby? Did your parents keep your favorite toy or rattle? How about your school work, and report cards? Did they keep the birthday, Mother's & Father's day cards? What about those wonderful works of art you painted or the clay ashtrays and animals you made? How much of your children's stuff do you keep? Is it hard to get rid of it and how do you choose what to throw away, if anything?

I called my mum and asked her if I had a baby book. She said she was given one at the hospital when I was born and that it was probably in the attic. I'll have to look for it some day. She doesn't have any clothes or pieces of hair though. I would love to hear what you have saved for yourself and for your children.

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Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Barb I just thought if you spoke then Jennifer could say what she thinks happened, yopu could say what you believed happen and just go from there. You have to start somewhere. If no one is willing to communicate then it lokks like we are done with the matter. Just my opinion.

RonnieGirl said...

Carol,

I'm not sure if I can address all the issues that are going on "behind the scenes", but apparently there must be many.

I'm so sorry for my friends that are hurting and can only support them with my love.

I will say, which I've said many times before as many of you have, how much I appreciate you making this nest for us to play in, and not have to deal with all the unpleasantness that has been proven on other blogs. I can't stand statements with 2 meanings, and those really need to stop. Further, if someone feels the need to write something that is "coded" for one particular Owl...take it to email.

It seems to me that most of this has been brought over here within the last month or two from leftover animosities that started at the Rossblog and/or Chat Room.

Our nest is our home away from real life and supposed to be a place of friendship, laughter, shared tears of joy and laughter, but not filled with hurt and pain.

I'm here because you, Carol, asked us to come out of "lurk-dom" and add what ever we could.

Bottom line.....
If anyone enjoys hurting people, as I've seen on two other blogs, then maybe this isn't the place for you to be.

Sorry for my long post, but I'm known for them.

I care for my friends and don't care for the ones hurting them.

night.owls.sb said...

Ronnie:
Thanks for coming out and commenting!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Ronnie well said.

night.owls.sb said...

I have to get tomorrows blog ready, as its unfinished....

I will be back...

East Bay J said...

Hi,

I'm so sorry to be reading that there is some problem going on. I am also clueless, I had no idea there were issues.

I like everyone here, and hope this can be smoothed out.

I just sent this out in an email and I hope it makes everyone smile like it did me!

http://www.vimeo.com/1211060

Amicus can you direct me to how to make a hiperlink?? Pretty please??

Also, the poem your dad wrote you was so touching and lovely.

Turtle I also did not know your mom was sick, I send my best wishes for her and hope she is on the mend.

Hi to Tina!

Hugs to everyone

Bon'O said...

Well,I, too, have not bailed and am sitting here 'in the dark'. Came home to catch up on the nest and post a few MS photo comments. Then realized I was too confused to contribute to the dialogue, and posting about anything else seemed to be ignoring the elephant in the room.

I do notice that we just went to a new page....and a new page seems like a wonderful thing to start among friends.

As we approach 200 blogs, I'm sure there are few of us who haven't accidentally hurt someone's feelings or made them feel less than welcome. But, hopefully we can all one-on-one any issues and enjoy what this wonderful nest has given us for the past 7 months.

Anonymous said...

Barbara_in_Wa..I haven't bailed either but I don't feel well enough tonight to be helpful to anyone. It breaks my heart that people here are hurting. I love this blog and cherish my Owl buddies. And I greatly, greatly appreciate Carol for the huge amount of time and effort she has put into this blog for the last seven months. Thank you, Carol, for all that you do! Big hugs to everyone that needs one tonight.

Mary/MI said...

Carol, I just come into the nest. I am saddened that there is friction. I have never cared for people airing personal things on ANY blog. I feel like I have entered a hornets nest.
I guess I am also clueless as to what is going on. I either missed something or I am not good at "reading between the lines". Either way. I will stay true to the nest. I hope if anyone ever has issues with me they will write to me at myspace message board.
I love this place. It will take more than a little friction to give up on it. I wov ALL of you! :+)

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Could someone read the comments 5:17 - 5:23 and tell me if this is where everything started or did something happen on myspace that we don't know about. I'm trying to help.

Barbara_in_COviaWA said...

this is the last i will post on here about this evenings events. iteach did not give me any kind of opportunity to talk to her privately and since this is a public blog and all are welcome i left her the message here. she did a hit-an-run on my myspace and then did not allow me to respond to her and talk it out and find out what I did that was so offensive. She was childish and I responded in kind, by being childish myself. I will not be responding to her again.
I appologize to anyone on here that I offended by acting like a baby. I appreciate all of you who have posted here, no matter what you have said. I do appreciate it. I will not be deleting any of my posts as I stand by them all. Childish ones included.

Tinkatia said...

Carol - I am here also but I really am at a loss as to how I can help. I think for the most part we all try to include everyone when we post. I know I feel bad if I miss someone and I go back and pick up the owls that I haven't seen in the nest that morning. I know most others do the same thing. The only thing I can think of is to start fresh with everyone remindful that we all have feelings and we all hurt easily. This is the place we come to give support and to be supported. Let's all get back to that. If we lost our little 'home away home' it would be a disaster for us all. I second VIG's comment that you, Carol, have worked so hard to get us to the comfort level that we can honestly express our feelings. I think our new mantra should be "take all negative issues to myspace and leave the positives in the nest". I am off to bed to say prayers for anyone who is hurting, scared or sick tonight. May God keep us all safe.
Until tomorrow. Love, Tinka

iteach said...

Tonight's public display of bullying has been horrible to me. There are only two other life events that rank higher then what happened tonight.

1. Finding my boyfriend with a bullet in his head.

2. Losing my twins.

Therefore, I need time to recover. I have been blessed with so many friends here that I smile when I think of all things that they have done for me.

All the postcards to my class.

The gifts for my student who had nothing.

The well wishes when my husband lost his job.

The words of encouragement with my illness.

I carry them in my heart and I will not forget them.

I will be thinking of you and wishes the best for you.

I just need time to regroup.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Jennifer you have to do what is right for you. Take the time you need to regroup and I hope you will come back and post here. ((((HUGS))))

Thanks again for allowing me to use Carolyn's picture.

Mary/MI said...

iteach, I am sad that you won't be posting. I will miss you. I hope your heart mends and can come back soon.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Barb I don't believe you displayed childish behavior. Obviously you were hurting and responding to that hurt. I hope the matter can come to a resolution at some point. Sorry I couldn't be of any help.((((HUGS))))

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

It is almost 2am here in stormy Nova Scotia, but I feel sleep is a long way off tonight. There seems to be a lull in the thunder. Why do storms have to happen at night? Don't they realize people need to sleep?! Tomorrow we are suppose to get part of a tropical storm with more thunder and lightening. I don't like it.

Just_Lin said...

I've been spending time with my brother so I'm not sure what all is going on here. I do know that posts here on the blog can get confusing as one person's response may show up in a sequence that makes it look like it is a response to a totally different post than what was intended. Is it possible that something like that happened?

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

That's a good observation and a good question Just Lin.

Hows the visit with your brother going? What fun things have you been doing and will there be pictures? You know how much we love pictures! Lol!

Mary/MI said...

Shirley...
Rock a by baby in the tree top
when the wind blows, the cradle will rock...la la lalala
oops, I forgot it said "when the wind blows" LOL.

Hope you get some rest.

Just_Lin said...

To put a smile on your face, go here to see a man sing puppies to sleep. So sweet!

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=jCnAjel02lM

Shirley No digital camera here. We seem to be going out and eating alot, watching movies, hanging out, and laughing alot.

Just_Lin said...

Amicus I keep forgetting to tell you how wonderful I thought your dad's poem was. Really extraordinarily touching. Thank you so much for sharing that with us.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Thanks Mary! Do you know "Twinkle Twinkle"?

sacBarb said...

I have caught up on the posts and I feel badly for my friends that have been hurt and are hurting. Carol has worked so hard to make this a happy and safe place and I hate to see it change into something like what we left.

I don't know what I am really feeling right now. All I can say is, I hope we can get through it and come out the other end as happy as we were when Carol started this Nest.

Shirley, you really are a wise Owl.

Bon'O said...

Mary/MI~~THAT was funny! and where've you been? I thought you must have gotten lost at the fair or OD'd on all the sweets!

Shirley~~Be safe, rest well and thanks again for today's blog!

Bon'O said...

J/L~~What's new with the camping fireman?

Want2Sleep said...

Well, I don't want to get into anyone's business because I don't know all sides. But, I think the world of BarbWA. She has been incredibly kind to me here and when I first started chatting at that old place (the tedious place). And, it's probably because of Barb that I have a myspace. She offered to set it up and get it going if I didn't want to that was almost 2 years ago And back them, I didn't want to. lol

I enjoy her sense of humor and would love to meet her in person someday.

Sorry, but I don't like to see any of my online friends hurt. JMO

sacBarb said...

Amicus, I'm glad you liked Joseph...One of the performances I was was with Donny Osmond too. He was really good. And how exciting that you got to meet Christopher Kale Jones. I am jealous. I loved the sweet poem your Dad wrote. How lucky you are to have that.

Turtle, I also didn't know your Mom was ill. I'm glad she is doing better and keeping you both in my thoughts. Glad that you are having a fun time with Tina, et al.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Just Lin I watched that video. Quite amazing.

Sacbarb and Bon'o thanks. ((HUGS))

Mary/MI said...

Bon, I was at the fair yesterday. It was hot and muggy. I had a corn dog and those home made french fries.
All that made me thirsty and had to force a few "Mike's Lemon-aide" wine coolers down my throat. I got home and had another snack attack. By then I needed a nap! A whole wasted day!

I may go back tomorrow lol!!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Well folks I'm going to go to bed. If I can get to sleep fast maybe I won't hear the thunder.

Good night Iteach, Barbara, Carol, Sacbarb, Want, Bon'O, Just Lin and anyone else that is still up. Mary can you sing me another lullaby now?

Just_Lin said...

Mary/MI What's the point of being retired if you can't "waste" days the way you want to. Good for you!

Just_Lin said...

BonO The camping fireman is now home. Yay! He and his lab, Trevor, had a good time.

Want2Sleep said...

bye Shirley...

Mary/MI said...

Barb, I forgot to send you healing thoughts. As Scarlet once said..
"tomorrow is another day". I think I said that right lol!

Want2Sleep said...

Mary,
Why do we all ove fair food so much !!?? lol

Want2Sleep said...

or LOVE,,,,lol

Mary/MI said...

Justlynn~ Amen to that!!
Night Shirleyzzzzzzzzzz

Want2Sleep said...

Well geez, now everyone bailed on me,,,,,,

Just_Lin said...

I'm going to call it a night, too. I hope things look better to everyone tomorrow.

Hart Believe me, this is really a nice place. We've just hit a little bump in the road. I'm sorry you have to see our dirty laundry so soon after joining us.

Just_Lin said...

Sorry, Want, but it really is time for me to go. Have a good night.

Mary/MI said...

Want, I have been ironing, washing,folding and putting away clothes. I hate doing it in the heat of the day. I will poop out soon too!

Want2Sleep said...

bye Jlin....

Bon'O said...

Want~~Speak to me of scones, elephant ears, funnel-cakes, burgers smothered in onions, pronto pups, cotton candy.....can you tell I forgot to make dinner and now it's too late?

Pleasant dreams and a better tomorrow to those saying g'night. I'm about to do the same.

sacBarb said...

Hey Want, I'm still here.

Mary/MI said...

Night Justlynn

Want2Sleep said...

Hey SacBarb,,,,didn't see you over there.

My mouth is watering Bono.

sacBarb said...

Bon'O: I ate dinner and you are making me hungry again. I think it's the prednisone. I have been struggling not to gain all the weight back that I lost, but it's not working. I have a new mantra...If God wants me to be skinny, I'll wake up that way!"

Foad monster is alive again. I hope this works.

Want2Sleep said...

Deep fried cheese curds......mmmm

sacBarb said...

Night Just_Lin. Sweet Dreams.

DreamaTexas said...

I am not sure what is going on.
I don't want to take sides and I have always stated this. I blog at different places and I don't think that stuff should matter because I have friends at different places. I don't think Ross should hurt anyones feelings any more than I think an Owl should hurt someones feelings. I say forgive and forget the past.
But I do know that someone has punked the entire Night Owls months ago. The person copied and pasted our photos and pretended to be different ones of us over at Myspace. Someone has done this to me several times. I feel that she or they have too much time on their hands because they did it in January and again just 3 weeks ago.
I have always told Carol that I wish that everyone here would just ask me questions and never assume things. There are people who just watch this blog and one never knows if it might even be Roland or his sister playing games or just some nut job behind a monitor.

Mary/MI said...

night Bono, don't forget the carmel candy,candy apples and walking tacos!

RonnieGirl said...

Just flying by to say good night to my flock of very caring and loving Owls, who have so graciously let me become a part of you. I use the word 'my' because you make me feel included here, even when I'm unable to post as often as I would like.

I'm sorry for the hurt feelings, and just hope these sort of things will be addressed away from The Nest in the future. I also stand behind every word in my previous post.

Some of you don't know me very well, but I live alone and have come to depend on your humor and the sharing of your adventures to fill a few hours of my otherwise uneventful day. My two children are grown with families of their own, and I just never thought I'd live the last part of my life without the sounds of laughter in my home. Sometimes, I can almost hear you laughing, and for this, I say Thank You, from the bottom of my heart.

Please be kind to one another, I need you.

((hugs))
Ronnie

RonnieGirl said...

Good night, and i hope to see all of you tomorrow.

Ronnie

Want2Sleep said...

bye ronnie

Bon'O said...

So sorry SacBarb. Eat up! Just blame it on me and God :o)

Btw, how's your air? Ours got funky again the last couple days and they blame it on No. California again, which made me wonder how you're doing.

Good night, Ronnie~~I can SO relate, and love ya!

Mary/MI said...

Ronnie, goodnight sweet lady. I hope we keep the nest laughing and giggling for a long time to come.

Want2Sleep said...

lol Bono, I thought you asked her how her HAIR was......

Bon'O said...

Want~~my 'hair' gets a little funky, too....can I blame that on California?

Want2Sleep said...

yes, you can

Mary/MI said...

Want & Bono~ LMAO air/hair.
Don't get me started! I spend an hour straightening my curls, one step outside and womp! I'm Shirley Temple!

Mary/MI said...

SacBarb, I forgot you were still here.
I have finished putting away the last basket of clothes. I should hit the sack.
Hubby will be at the Casino tomorrow so I will be able to de-crumb his easy chair lol!

I will probably be up all night pissing. I picked our first cukes from our garden today. I just ate 4 of them!
Nighters Bon,Want,& SacB You have made me feel so much better. I love my owls!!

Dianne/Denver said...

Hi to anyone still up or reading in the morning. Ok MARY/MI-I now have this image of you tap dancing with your curls bouncing!! Could you also tell me what a "walking taco" is? Just a regular taco but you walk with it?

BONO: What is a pronto pup and and elephant ear...you guys sure eat strange things and I have been to the State Fair too!!

SACBARB: I have taken so much prednisone this summer and you can look at me to verify it. Now I am not blaming this old body completely on medicine and I love your mantra...ok, never mind...I am going to blame it on meds for about 40 years!!! :) Oh yea, remember, I had two "babies" 39 and 35 years ago!!

sacBarb said...

I went away for a while but I am back to say good night.

Bon: Our air hasn't been good the past few days. We got a north wind and it blew the smoke from the Butte County fires back into our valley. But at least it hasn't been blistering hot.

Good night Owls. Hoping tomorrow is a better day for all.

sacBarb said...

Dianne: Blame it on anything you want...I do!!!!

Have a fun day tomorrow.

Dianne/Denver said...

Page 2..I also want to thank CAROL for devoting so much time to this nest and having daily blogs for us to read each morning. I love the sense of humor there is everyday and how we can all joke and tease with each other. I think a perfect example of that was on Saturday at the "picnic". I had some distressing news on that day and it so took my mind a little bit away for a time to read and smile. As I have mentioned to all of you before, when I was in the hospital and home in bed so much..this nest was a daily source of smiles for me. Each morning I would and do refresh my internet phone thing so I can see what the morning blog is and the new comments. Ok, that is all for the night...good night and thanks Carol!!

Want2Sleep said...

Goodnight Everyone !

whabbear said...

I just read the bulk of today's comments with astonishment and, I'm sorry to say, a crawling, jarring, grating sense of deja vu.

Similar events have happened so often in Rossland, and in the Colony, too. Given that we are virtually all Rossland and Colony alumni, a flare-up in the nest was practically inevitable.

Now that a flame war has broken out, maybe the acceptance of that very inevitability can give us a perspective on how we deal with it.

Speaking only for myself, I think it's important to keep in mind that, as in every cyberspace social community, everybody's involvement in the Owl's Nest is 100% voluntary. Every day we exercise our freedom to make straightforward choices regarding blog activities, such as: Do I participate, or not? If I do participate, what kinds of comments do I elect to respond to (or not), and what kind of content do I decide to include in my own comments?

For myself, going forward after tonight, the choices are clear. As long as Carol is willing to sustain and nurture this wonderful place, I will be here supporting her.

I will also continue to support all the owls who entertain and enlighten and enrich my life with their daily jokes, with their opinions, and their reminiscences, and their adventures and viewpoints and feelings and activities.

Not all of the aforementioned have to be sweetness and light because, as Carol has often pointed out, life is not all sweetness and light.

Nighty night.

Want2Sleep said...

lol,, Turtle just said, after reading Bear's post " boy, he was sober when he wrote this

Zona said...

ATTENTION KMART SHOPPERS:

I just received this message from TINA:

"I just caught up on the comments, and I only have one question...BEAR, can we still have sex??"

END OF ANNOUNCEMENT

whabbear said...

Tina: Yes, but since the blog was kind of twisted today, only kinky sex, please.

whabbear said...

Sleep and Turtle: Now drinking heavily so I can stomach kinky sex with Tina.

What... you expected me to do that sober?

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