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Sunday, June 7, 2009

"Don't Worry "Bout Me"

Chosen by Mek





Alan Jackson wrote “Sissy’s Song” about a family friend and co-worker that died an early death. He sang it at her funeral with no intention of this ever being on an album. It is a very soothing and heartwarming song and I wanted to share it with everyone. Because a year ago today, one of my best friends in the whole wide world was taken from this earth. Her life was cut short by a person that chose to drink and drive.

Every time I hear this song – I think of Chris – I can, literally, hear her saying “don’t worry ‘bout me”………. Well, I miss her more than ever and more than anyone will ever know.

So, today, let’s all remember loved ones that we have loved and lost. I hope everyone has an excellent day!!

Enjoy the song.

100 comments:

iteach said...

MEK, you chose a very beautiful song in memory of your friend. It also made me think of all the loved ones that are waiting for me.

iteach said...

It is raining here today and my flowers are loving it.

I'm hoping to get a lot of cleaning done today.

Lynn D said...

Morning Glories!

Congrats on first Iteach!!

MEK that is a beautiful song. The lyrics are perfect and covers all of the feelings of loss and grief. Thank you!

Maureen said...

Good morning feathered friends!

ITEACH...you got 1st! YAY! I'm glad your garage sale was a success!

LYNN...good morning! I hope your day is WAYYYYYYYYYYYY better today then yesterday. Love you.

MEK...my heart goes out to you today. And to Chris' family. Ginormous gentle {{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you. I watch the vid and have never heard this song before, so I will google the lyrics.

ZONA...did you read that...I google, too!!

Maureen said...

I just googled the lyrics. SO beautiful. It made think of so many that have gone already but especially young Leah.

night.owls.sb said...

Mek,

I loved the song you picked in memoriam of your friend Chris. I truly can't believe
a yr has gone by, it seems only yesterday we heard of her passing..

I am one to believe that those who pass on are very much smiling down on us, and continue to watch over us..

Thank you for finding the vid and writing today's blog..

♥♥♥

whabbear said...

MEK: I'm seconding what 'weenie said! Hugs to you today.

night.owls.sb said...

I have to run..

Hope all has a good day!

:O)

Jodi said...

Good morning to ITEACH (congrats on first!!), LYNN D (hope you have a better day!!), and MO!!

MEK - What a perfect song to honor the memory of your friend Chris. I can't believe it's been a year. ((((HUGS)))) to you my friend!!

Jodi said...

Waving madly @ CAROL & WHABBY!!

I hope everyone has a great day. I'm doing laundry (as always!!) and meeting KARINA B for brunch. Should be fun!!!

MEK in AZ said...

Happy Sunday!!

Good Morning...

It's a beautiful day and we are off to the dog park......

Iteach, Lynn, MO, cpgem, Whabby, Jodi - I am very thankful that Alan Jackson decided to put this song on his latest CD - it is SO PERFECT!!! thank you for the hugs..

we will celebrate LIFE today!!

I hope everyone has an excellent day!!

:-)

MEK in AZ said...

FORETEEN

East Bay J said...

Good morning!

MEK sending big (((HUGS))) to you today. You chose a beautiful song, I'd never heard it before.

Can't believe it's been a year since Chris died.

Iteach congrats on 1st! Yipee!

My mom is coming over to spend the day, so that will be fun!

Good morning to Carol, Jodi, Lynn D, Mo and Bear (you are up soooo early!?)

Have a nice day everyone!

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Mek - Thinking about you today. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful song. It makes me cry but not in a sad way, a reassuring way. ((((Hugs))))) to you today.

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Iteach - Congrats on being first.

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Lynn, Maureen, Carol, Whabbear, Jodi, and East Bay J. Hope you are all doing well this fine Sunday.

Tinkatia said...

I have picked up a cold so I am laying low today. I guess my system is not used to being surrounded by hundreds of people from so many countries. I will be back tomorrow. Stay safe everyone. Love, Tinka

Tinkatia said...

Zona - Call me if you are home.

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Mek - I know you must be way ahead of me now. Good for you.

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sacBarb said...

Happy Sunday Owls.

MEK, I love this song, but I can't listen to it without tearing up. I can't believe it has been a year since Chris was taken. I am leaving for Church soon and I'll say a prayer for her family and you too. (((HUGS))). Love you.

sacBarb said...

Iteach, congrats on #1. Glad your rummage sale made enough for your mini vacation.

LunnD, I hope you have a better day today.

Bear, Up early to watch tennis? Congrats to Federer.

Jodi & Goldie, So glad you guys can get together so often.

MEK, How was the lesson yesterday? Have fun at the dog park.

EBJ, How nice that you are spending the day with your Mom.

Tinka, Take care of that cold.

Carol, Have a good spa day.

Mo, LOL @ you Google too.

Zona, (((HUGS)))

Waving to all the other Owls who land later.

Vig said...

MEK...thinking of you today as you honour your friend on this sad day! Thank you for the gorgeous song (I've listened to it three times now and haven't made it through without tears yet)....I hope the words bring you much comfort!!

MEK in AZ said...

We are home from the dog park...

our little one is making AMAZING progress - she's coming out of her shell........

Good Morning, EBJ, Tinka (you are still ahead), SacBarb and VIG..

I am at peace with Chris' passing - so today is a GOOD day!!

I have to tell you all something pretty funny - I tried to make a video with pictures, etc, and this song - WELL, needless to say - it didn't work - I need to really work on it!!! SO, that's why you got a generic one from YouTube!!!
LOL

The first time I ever heard this song - I cried like a baby - now it's on the radio every 10 minutes and it is just so peaceful!! Thank you all for your kind thoughts, hugs and well, you know!!!

:-)

MEK in AZ said...

Jodi - have fun with KB - I know you'll have a great time!!

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sacBarb - the little one did better yesterday - she actually wanted to go into PetSmart and greeted EVERYONE - people, kids, dogs - you name it - she wanted to know about it.......

we practiced "COME" - cuz she really has a hard time with that..

So - today - at the dog park - we stood at opposite ends and just called her back and forth!!

She met a new "friend" today - they could have been twins....

OH and we saw some of the most beautiful dogs - one - a four month old bull mastiff - brindle like our Barney - this dog already almost weighs 100 pounds!! WOW...

(we went into the small dog area - since she's a puppy and Bailey is "senior citizen"...

but - it was a good morning... Mr. Mek is on his way to my mom's to do some "honey do's" for her...

just a lazy day!!!

iteach said...

MEK- I'm so glad it went well at the dog park today!

Tinka- I always hear of a lot of people that get sick when they come home from a trip. I hope you feel better soon!

Jodi- Have fun at your brunch today.

Carol- What did you and your godchild do today together?

Judy- Enjoy your day with your mom. :)

Just_Lin said...

Iteach Woo Hoo! Congrats on being first here today! I am jealous of your rain. We keep being told we have a chance of rain but then don't get any. It's a beautiful day here today, though.

LynnD I guess you slept in my about 6 minutes. LOL

MO Good morning to you, too.

Carol Is Sarah making Sunday gravy today?

Bear Are you having gorgeous weather today, too?

Jodi Remember to think outside the box. LOL

EBJ How fun! Has your mom met Nancy yet?

Tinka Sorry about your cold but I'm glad you didn't get sick while you were still on your cruise.

SacBarb Let us know if you see any hunks in church.

VIG Isn't Seychelles supposed to be pretty neat?

MEK Thank you for the beautiful song. I'd never heard it before. I now you miss your friend but what a wonderful idea that we should all celebrate life as we remember the wonderful times we had with those that are now departed. (((HUGS)))

Just_Lin said...

LynnD I meant "slept in BY" not "MY". Geez, sometimes my brain does not communicate with my fingers.

Just_Lin said...

Now should be know.....
I really should proof read before I post.

Dianne/Denver said...

MEK: I heard this story on the radio also and love the song. It doesn't feel like a sad song when you know the story behind it and how much they loved the person it was written about in their life. I'm sending hugs to you today (and everyday). Have you heard (I'm sure my fellow country music fan has) the song from Tim McGraw about drunk driving...it's called something like It's Not Worth Dying For".

Good morning to all the owls. JODI AND GOLDIE, glad you had a good time as always yesterday. Isn't it fun to just laugh and laugh!

I am off to a bbq that a friend of mine has every year. My husband talked me into him staying home doing some things I need done..trade...no party for a honey-do...guess he really didn't want to go. He doesn't really know anyone and this year my sil has to work so he really won't know anyone. Hey, it gave me a great time to make a list without him complaining!

Things sure are quiet at my house today...sniff sniff

Dianne/Denver said...

PICTURE DISCLAIMER>>>>>

Just a note regarding Tina's newest pictures...

1)We don't really keep a recliner in our driveway. Goodwill was picking it up at 7AM the next day..but we told TINA it was her welcome throne.

2) Happy to see MrD had underwear on for the picture or it would have been porn!!

3) I don't really have five chins..as JODI said..it was the camera angle. I tried to look up for them but Tina and my husband said it looked like I was staring at the ceiling..and my "good friend" TINA mentioned that too bad I was short and then I could look up all the time and they wouldn't show....now that's a caring and thoughtful friend!!!

4) Tina's camera adds a good (I mean bad) 50 pounds or 200 pounds to some of the people ....not the camera owner tho'

END OF DISCLAIMER....

Lynn D said...

I just wanted to pop in and explain my sucky day yesterday. I had to ask a volunteer to leave the food bank. It was not a pretty process and so I answer my own question can you fire a volunteer? Yes you can and sometimes you have to. I was hit with so many problems yesterday I almost got in my car and left. I am still exhausted.

Today is not going much better. I had a phone message from a family member that was basically incoherent this morning. I called my Dad to find out what was going on and two of my cousins tried to commit suicide last week. Thank God neither one suceeded but it sounds like it is going to be rough going for both of them.

I think I am just on overload today and am not processing everything and seem to be suppressing tears all the way around. I am not going to be all jokey today because of it. I do have to run errands and grocery shop as we are out of everything here. Ironic as I spend so much time at the food bank. I just hope I can get through the chores before I let myself have time to absorb all of this.

I will try to post later but no guarantees because I may just go back to bed and pull the covers over my head and go to sleep.

Zona said...

Afternoon Everyone!

MEK: I think this is such a pretty song. I heard it for the first time about two weeks ago. I think about my mom everytime I hear it.

It's so hard to believe that a year has gone by since the loss of your friend Chris. I know you think about and miss her every day. Sending you big {{hugs}} today.

Love this sweet song MEK, thank you.

Zona said...

ITEACH: Congrats on FIRST! I hope you've had a wonderful day!

LYNND: I'm so sorry to hear about your cousins. Somedays are just hide under the bed or pull the covers over your head kind of days. {{Hugs}}

MO: Google is good. ;)

TINKA: Feel better soon.

JODI: "As always" isn't that the truth?

SACBARB: SWAK!

J/LIN: Sometimes my brain doesn't communicate at all.. ;)

DIANNE: I think the pics are wonderful..you look like you're having so much fun! Enjoy the barbque!

VIG: One ringy dingy... ;)

HI EBJ! HI BEAR! HI CAROL!

MEK in AZ said...

ATTENTION!!!!

AL MEKAL ALERT!!!!


TIGER WINS!! Gotta love it!!!
He just puts on a clinic for everyone!!

End of Al Mekal alert!!!

MEK in AZ said...

Lynn - sorry you had such a rough day yesterday .... (((HUGS)))

Dianne - LOVE your picture disclaimer!!

waving howdy to Just Lin and Zona..

I'm off to take a nap!!

sacBarb said...

Good afternoon Owls.

J/L, Sadly, no hunks at Church. And we just heard today that our Assistant Pastor is being transferred to Redding to become a Pastor. While I am very happy for him, I am sad for us. We all love him and this will leave our Pastor alone again. No word yet if a replacement will ba named.

MEK, I'm glad that Tug is doing better and being more friendly. Hope lives!

Tinkatia said...

Lynn - Sorry you had a 'sucky' day. (((((Hugs))))

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Hi SacBarb - How are you doing?

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I just got up long enough to count to 50. That's enough exercise for me today. Hope everyone is having a wonderful Sunday. Last Sunday at this time I was on Glacier Bay. That now seems like weeks ago. Where does the time go? Back to rest my weary head.

sacBarb said...

I am packing for a trip to Seattle. My 37 year old son is scheduled for a quadruple bypass next Thursday and I am going up there to be with him. I wasn't going to mention it here, but I decided he could use all the prayers and good thoughts the nest offers.

I am leaving at 5am on Tuesday and I have a lot to do tomorrow, so I don't know if I will be here. I will try to check in while I am gone.

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Zona - Thanks for the call. It made my day.

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Tina~in_ut said...

Di~ git ur ass home or at the very least let us know when ur safe! I've got the Denver Post up and my daughter and I are looking at the pictures.....she called her friend and they are okay~ Be Safe!!!

Mek~ can't believe it's been a year~

Iteach~ congrats on first~

LynnD~ just cry! You'll feel better~ And I'll keep ur family in my prayers~

Tina~in_ut said...

SacBarb~ prayers for ur son as well~

Just_Lin said...

SacBarb Sending positive thoughts to you and your son. You must be very concerned. Once he recovers from the surgery, I bet he feels better than he has in ages. (((HUGS)))

LynnD Positive thoughts being sent your way, too. I hope your cousins get all the help they need to get through this crisis in their lives. (((HUGS)))

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Did you see that, Shirley?

Maureen said...

SACBARB...positive thoughts and prayers for your son. May his surgery go well and he have a speedy and full recovery. {{hugs}}

LYNN...I am so sorry for the pain you are going thru. POsiitve thoughts and prayers to you and your family. {{HUGS}}

Maureen said...

JUST LIN...nice march! enjoy the 69!

night.owls.sb said...

Sacbarb..
I am glad you shared with us, I will certainly wholeheartedly be thinking about you, your son, and your family. He is awful young to be going thru such a surgery. However the strides they have made with bypass surgery is amazing. I know many ppl who have had this surgery and all are doing very well and living a wonderful productive life..

I also know it can be scary, as the heart is such a special organ, but his heart is filled with love, and his dad is watching over him, both of these special things will certainly help in the upcoming days.

Many good wishes being sent your way.

Please keep us posted, if you can't access the blog, if you can contact one owl and let them know, then they can let us know.. Don't mean to be pushy in anyway, I am just concerned..

♥♥♥

night.owls.sb said...

Iteach..

Congrats on first.. :O)

night.owls.sb said...

Jodi!

Oh how fun, meeting up with KBee, I have know her since the Rossblog, she is so very nice.. I am sure you had a great brunch..

So Fun!

night.owls.sb said...

Tinka,

Sorry you are not feeling well, it might be the climate change. Vacations are wonderful, but for some reason we need a vacation from a vacation..

Thinking of you..

♥♥♥

night.owls.sb said...

Lynnd,

Sorry about your family issues, it must really take a toll, It is so very sad.. I hope tomorrow can be a better day..

Thinking of you..

♥♥♥

night.owls.sb said...

I spent the day @ my aunts with my godchild and her family, it was a fun 8th birthday, actually I thought it was her 7th, but its her 8th, time goes by so fast..

I had my parents with me, glad I did as it was a good day out for the both of them..

My dad just talks so much in the car, that I count the minutes till I get to my destination.. Yadda, Yadda, Yadda.. :O)

Tinkatia said...

Carol - Thanks for the kind words. I am glad you had fun at your godchild's birthday. I can't believe how fast the little ones are growing up. Is time really going faster or does it just seem like it? Just wondering.

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night.owls.sb said...

Tinka..

Time is really going by faster, at least that it what it seems to me..

Smiles to you..
:O)

night.owls.sb said...

I am off to bed.. Yuck, tomorrow is Monday.. talking about things going by quickly.. this weekend flew by.. Just like birdee's fly by's..

Hope all has a good nite..

:O)

sacBarb said...

Thanks Tina, J/L, Mo and Carol for your thoughts and prayers.

Tina, I hear your Mom has a lot of pull so maybe she would say a little prayer, to??

Carol, Thanks for your encouraging words. I know great strides have been made in this area of surgery, but it is still a worry when they are messing around with a heart.

I am very tired tonight so I am going to turn in early, hoping I can sleep. Haven't been doing well in that area lately. Good night all and sweet dreams. ♥♥♥♥♥ you all.

Just_Lin said...

SacBarb Sweet dreams. I hope you are able to get a good rest tonight.

Just_Lin said...

Why are the idiots setting off fire crackers tonight?

Mary/MI said...

Good evening everyone. I am running late as usual.
MEK~I wanted to tell you how much I loved the song. I will celebrate life as you mentioned. I am sure Chris is smiling down on you.
How about that Tiger? I actually watched the whole final round. I was glued to the tv when I saw he was tied for 2nd with the others. I had a feeling he was going to pull it off! The sand trap did make me wonder for a minute lol!

LynnD~ So sorry to hear about your hard day.{{hugs}} Let's hope you have a good week coming up. I too hope the cousins find the help they need.

Diane. your disclaimer was funny! Tell Mr Diane "thanks for the almost thrill" lol!! (porno shot)

SacBarb~ I am on my way to bed and putting your son on my prayer list. Hope you will get some rest tonight.
Jodi, I am soooo jealous! Give Karina a humongous hug for me!!!

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SacBarb - thanks for sharing! Sending many, many good thoughts and prayers!!!
:-)

Mary - how fun - you watched the golf today!! isn't he just AMAZING!

Dianne in denver - you need to check in with us... I am thinking the tornados were on the "other side" - but you did say you were going out!!!

Tinka - hope you are feeling better soon.....

Thank you everyone - for your nice comments on the song of the day!!
See - country music isn't so bad!!
LOL

I'm off to bed early -

Hope everyone has an excellent Monday!!
:-)

(Just Lin - sweet dreams!!!)

Mary/MI said...

I am off to bed too. I worked outside in the yard today and moved furniture around my living room while Mr Mary was gone. I had to kill off all the dust bunnies under and around his "Archie Bunker chair". That is hard to do when he practically lives in it lol!

My sister is coming over tomorrow. She wants to borrow my Karaoke equipment for her class reunion. She want to use it the week I want to take a trip next month. I hope she can do it or I will have to stay and help.

Sweet dreams to all, and of course all the sweet lurkers :)

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Just_Lin said...

Sweet dreams, HOoters! Especially you, MEK! LOL

Jodi said...

Good morning!! Good thing I set 2 alarms....cuz I truly did not hear the first one!!

CAWFEE IS goooooooooooood!!!

CAROL - Brunch with Karina B was fun!! She truly is a delight!!

SACBARB - Will be praying for your son. I'm sure things will turn out ok. (((HUGS))) to you and safe travels!!

LYNN D - I hope the cousins get the help they so need. ((((HUGS)))) to you, too!!

sacBarb said...

Jodi, Thanks for the prayers and safe travel wishes. Don't work too hard today.

Mary, Thanks for the prayers. Sleep well.

LynnD, Sending good thoughts for your cousins.

Lynn D said...

Morning Sacbarb and Jodi!

Jodi that is so fun that you got to Kbee!

Sacbarb very safe travels and call me when you get settled and update me on your son! I will keep my cell phone charged and on!

Thanks for all the (((Hugs))) and well wishes everyone. The news from the family front just through me for a big loop. My Dad has specially requested that I attend the family reunion this Sunday and I will probably go but am hesitant with all of the sadness. If that makes sense.