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Saturday, April 24, 2010

WARM AND MUSHY BLOG AHEAD...

by Maureen


I am really looking forward to Chicago. More than I can explain.

As you may have gathered, since I have whined about it numerous times, my life changed a couple of years ago. I became unemployed, went thru my savings and lost my self esteem, my vim and vigor and I lost myself. I never imagined as I celebrated turning 50 my lifestyle would have been what it became. The plan had been to celebrate 50 in Venice. I spent it in my living room.

In my previous life, I did what I wanted.  I could afford to wake up one day and decide I was going away for long weekends or real vacations. I had a freedom that I miss. I AM grateful for what I do have. I DO love my job, but something is still missing, aside from the monetary shortcomings I face.

Going to Chicago is the first sign of things as they once were, and maybe someday will be again. I really thought I would NEVER be able to get away with friends again. And in about a week, that will become a reality. It means so much to me that I am almost giddy!

And to be there with you makes it even more special. To be with you who made me laugh when I was crying. To be with friends that let me vent without judgement. To be with friends that laugh at my dorkiness (and I choose to believe you are laughing with me, not at me!!) And to be with you, who don't care that I am old, fat, wrinkly, gassy and decrepit!!

Chicago will be just what I needed. You are just what I needed. Just in time.

PS...for the record, there will be no ass shaving and no ax murdering allowed!!

60 comments:

Tina~in_ut said...

pretty~

Tina~in_ut said...

yup....you got that right~ ur a dork~ :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Look Di!!!! I got first! :D

night.owls.sb said...

and I got 4th.. yea for me.....

night.owls.sb said...

Tina...

Somewhat pretty~

night.owls.sb said...

Tina...

Not a dork.. and dorkish porkish!

night.owls.sb said...

Mo..

Sweet blog.. I can't wait to meet ya.. I can't believe its next weekend.. I remember those ups and downs well.. and I had my own..so glad we were all here for each other, it is amazing at certain times of our lives we seek out others, only to be rewarded in different ways.. you might have not been in the best financial state, but you always had your serial killer friends.. ♥♥♥

and for the record... Let the ass shaving begin..

:O)

Mary/MI said...

Hi gals. I am back from my cruise. I think I have a couple blogs to write about it. All in all it was a blast! The worse parts is coming home of course. I hate the long wait at the airport. We have about 6 more hrs to wait. We are in good company. Many are laid out and trying to be patient. I need to find an outlet or my laptop battery will run down. Anyone in Ft Lauderdale want to pick us up for a couple hrs? lol!

Lynn D said...

Morning Glories!

Tina first again! I though you were working beautiful.

Mo great blog I am giddy about meeting everyone too! Tho I do dread the airport business to get to you guys. This group means a lot to me to as it has been a great place to vent and play and share life everyday life.

Ummmm can I shave my ass before I leave home? Or is that against your rules to?

Lynn D said...

Welcome back Mary! Glad to hear you had a great time on your cruise! I saw that on FB.

Jodi said...

MO - Great blog. I, too am soooooo excited for next weekend. I found this bunch of great people. You all have been here for me thru the ups and downs of life. And for that I thank you!! I feel like I have made true friends. People that I trust more than some in my "real" life.

TINA - Congrats on first ya HO!!! Can't wait to see your face....I have a preview of your inheritance ;)

CAROL - You truly are a gem!! Can't wait to meet you...I'll be the one with the cute purse!! lol @ let the ass shaving begin!!

MARY - Glad you had fun on your cruise!! I'm bringing my mouthgaurd....I promise!!

LYNN - You'll do fine. Can't wait to give you a (((hug)))!!!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Well I'M NOT excited about next weekend cause I WON'T be there. (someone shortsheet Bebbi's bed for me) I'll probable be at the office doing last minute stuff and then we are all going for supper at a restaraunt about an hour away. But...*sniff*sniff*...I know you will all...*sniffle*sniffle*...have a...*voice breaking*...good time...

**hits publish, grabs tissue and turns away from computer sobbing**

Jodi said...

SHIRLEY - Do you need more tissues? I'm doing my part to make you "there".....hee, hee, hee!!!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Thank you *sniff*sniff* Jodi.

Jodi said...

You're welcome SHIRLEY!!

HELLO.....where in the butt naked hell is everyone today?!!?

Maureen said...

Good evening feathered friends!

I worked a long ass day today, and I am pooped! (not pooping, just pooped!)

TINA...takes a dork to know a dork!

CAROL...LOL@ dorkish porkish! Shave your OWN ass!

LYNN...I checked the by-laws and shaving one's own ass is not only acceptable, but preferable!

HODI...Yes, we can always count on each other to be there when we seem to need it most. You'll be the one with the cute purse and the big rack...ijs!

MARY...so glad you enjoyed your cruise. Bring lots of pics along!

SHIRLEY...don't cry, we will be missing you more then you missing us. Ummm, HODI can you bring the tissues along?

Jodi said...

MOHO - Tissues are packed....along with a few other surprises!!!

Maureen said...

HODI...it's the surprises that scare me the most!

Maureen said...

i'm gonna make a lot of posts so it doesn't look like a total loser blog

Maureen said...

20

Maureen said...

It is overcast and rainy here today

Maureen said...

Did you hear about Bret Michaels? He has a brain hemmhorage and in critical condition. Last week he needed an emergency appendectomy.

Maureen said...

I'm glad Kate is off DWTS

Just_Lin said...

25

Just_Lin said...

25

Maureen said...

this morning I forgot I had to be to work at 8:30 instead of 9. Went without any make-up. Scared myself when I saw my reflection in the mirror in the restroom. But I got there on time

Maureen said...

YIPPEEEEEE!!!
Another owl flew in~

JUST LIN...good evening!

Maureen said...

HODI will be the one with the cute purse, TINA will be the one with the crocs and I will be the one with the finest haute couture that Walmart has to offer ;)~

Maureen said...

TV UPDATE...

not working again! Gonna check the cables...AGAIN

Maureen said...

The numbers are looking more respectable now.

BBL...hopefully without my super powers!

Just_Lin said...

Maureen. LOL. There are no loser blogs. I am really looking forward to this little get-away, too, and to meeting you and all the other owls.

Just_Lin said...

This cold is getting me down. I tried to take a nap but all I did was cough the whole time and I couldn't rest at all.

Jodi said...

Hey SLIN!!

MO - No, I hadn't heard that about Bret...that's too bad. And I'm with SLIN. There are no loser blogs!!! I hope you get your TV working.

Jodi said...

35!!!

Jodi said...

SLIN - Have you tried Vicks? I know it doesn't smell the best, but works every time for me.

Maureen said...

JUST LIN...Have you seen a doctor? Maybe you need a script for some heavy duty cough medicine. Or an antibiotic. I hope you're better for Chicago. Flying while sick sux the most.

{{{HUGS}}}

Maureen said...

HODI...my phone is not charged either! I have one little bar of charge let. Better find your charger before next weekend! You will have major anxiety if you don't have a phone with you!!

Just_Lin said...

Hodi. I took some Nyquil a little while ago which has some cough suppressent in it. My old lady bladder does not do well with constant coughing, if you get my drift.

Jodi said...

SLIN - My bladder is a bit younger than yours, and thanks to my 3 kids.....well, you get the drift!!! ;)

MO - Didn't find my charger, but hubby's new phone is the same make as mine, so I'm using his!!! Although I realize I best find mine before next Friday!!!

Maureen said...

I didn't have 3 kids and my bladder is WAYYYYY younger then JUST LIN's but I still get the drift!

Jodi said...

I'm now working tomorrow. A co-worker asked me to switch Sunday for Wednesday...not a bad deal, cuz I will then have 6 days off!!! Just got my last load in the dryer, so it's bedtime for this HO!!!

I hope everyone has a great night!!

Jodi said...

MO.....lol lol lol lol!!! See?!!? You can always find a smile here!!!

Jodi said...

SLIN - You're not on fb yet, so you've not seen my new "cheaters". Cute, huh?!!?

Jodi said...

Alright, really going now before I catch my 10th "wind" of the day.

Good night HOoters ♥

Lynn D said...

Hello everyone!

Meant to get back early but was very worn out after doing the food bank P/U at Trader Joes. There were 3 of us that went. Myself and One of the younger gals and one of the volunteers husbands drove as he had the big truck! He was so cute 80 years old and he just jumped in and helped like crazy. Even tho I was afraid to let him lift much. The only hitch in our giddie up today was that we all got soaked through. It waited to pour and hail on us as we loaded the damn truck! Came home changed clothes and then took a nap.

Just/Lin I am ordering you to bed for the next two days! We need you at the meet n greet! Raising my hand as I have the bladder thing at times to.

Just_Lin said...

Maureen. LOL @ WAY YOUNGER!

HOdiHo. Thanks for the call. :). I'm on my phone so can't see avatars. Later when I'm on the computer, I'll check out your "cheaters".

Maureen said...

LYNN...wow, a Trader Joe's donation. How sweet is that! Sorry you got soaked, though.

Tina~in_ut said...

wow....finally home, and I didn't think i was tired, but I must be....I thought LynnD just said she's porn out~

Tina~in_ut said...

50~

Tina~in_ut said...

Mo~ the loser blogs are mine~ ijs~

Tina~in_ut said...

j/l~ vodka.....lots of vodka....you'll forget all about ur cold~ :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Jodi~ ya know....i can't take anything home what won't go thru security w/o being flagged! you'll just end up taking it back home~ IJS~

Tina~in_ut said...

welcome home mary~ SO glad you made it safe and sound~

Zona said...

Goooood Evennning!

I just got home..I've been limping errands all day. Not running.. limping. It was very frustrating to have Mr Z holding onto my elbow to make sure I didn't fall if my knee gave out.

MO: I wish I could be there with all of you next week..I know it's going to be so much fun! I bet I'll be able to hear the laughter (and maybe even a few snorts) all the way down here at the end of the world!

I'll be thinking of everyone and praying for safe travels as you head to Chicago. Send texts! Take pictures! But most of all..enjoy your time together..smile, laugh and make every minute one to remember! Have fun everyone..promise?! :D

TINA: Congrats gorgeous!

JODI..I REALLY felt like an old fadoo today!!

SHIRLEY: I'll help you hold down the fort! :)

J/LIN: I hope you feel better fast! Get some rest! :)

MARY: Welcome Home! I can't wait to hear about your cruise!

CAROL: :)

LYNN: You're going to do fine at the airport..please don't worry. I bet you never thought you'd hear me say "don't worry"! This is a case of 'do as I say not as I do'. :D

I've got to take some Tylenol for this knee..Have a good night everyone!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Sounds to me like someone should bring a supply of Depends to this Meet & Greet. ijs.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Hey Zona we can have out own party while everyone is away. Maybe Birdee will swoop in and visit too!

Maureen said...

ZONA...I promise! I'm confused...your elbow is fine so maybe MR.Z should have held your knee! Or at least seductively caressed it:)~

SHIRLEY...when you and ZONA party keep her away from the jello shots! You know how she gets after a few of those! And DIANNE won't be here to clean up after y'all!

Maureen said...

ZONA... have Mr.Z baby you a bit. Sit on the couch with your knee up and ring a little bell for everything you need! Remember when cutting off part of a pinky caused him to not be able to walk? Payback time!!!

Mary/MI said...

Making a quick fly-by on my way to pass out. I may take a two day nappy!

MO,your blog was so sweet. I am needing a {{group hug}} after reading it! I can't wait to do it in person!
I wish all the owls could be there, but we will be checking in the blog I am sure. I am taking my lap top for sure!
One more facebook check in and I am off to bed!

Just_Lin said...

Sweet dreams, HOoters!