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Thursday, August 14, 2008

Volunteering

this is Bebbi's first blog
it is very endearing, i am
glad she shared! Congrats
Bebbi on your first Night
Owl Blog!!


by Bebbi

All my life I have admired people who volunteer their time. I think that is the truest way to show that your life’s “cup runneth over”. I used to work full time and part time at a bookstore, when I finally realized I didn’t have to worry about money as much, I gave my notice on my part time job. I figured I could spend the 20 hours giving back and started volunteering instead. I decided I wanted to work one on one with a person and make that sort of impact rather than a more general way of helping others.

Volunteering for me was always with my kids in mind at first. Sports functions, band practice, school stuff and field trips kept me busy. As they got older, I worked because teenagers want all kinds of expensive things and they need more money for college and all that. When I decided to volunteer instead of work my part time job, it was a great decision!

Big Brothers Big Sisters is a top notch organization! I started with BB/BS of Kentuckiana several years ago. I was matched with an awesome girl who was 7 years old named Shiann. She and I went through a lot together. My family and I love her and she will be a part of my life forever. She is 12 now. When she and I met, she was with her mom. Since then she has been at 3 foster homes and one aunt’s house. Without going into too much detail, she has had a lot of challenges. BB/BS is great because they give you free tickets to stuff and we got to be in their brochures. We were interviewed on the news and just loved spending time together. She loves to read so we spent a lot of time at the library. Also, we enjoyed swimming and bicycling.

After Shiann moved away to be adopted (she has since come back in town now), I decided to volunteer in a totally different way. I went through training (40 hours!) to become a hospital advocate for the Women’s Center. I go on hospital runs for domestic violence cases and sexual assaults. My job is to give support and information to women in a very critical time of need. It is very rewarding but also draining at times.

One run I went on recently made me realize how much each little piece of volunteering fits together. I went to the Women’s center to be an advocate for someone who was raped. When she was done with her exam, the victim said she would need clothes. The nurse got out a large bundle of clothes in her size. It was packaged in a very large zip lock bag. It had in it comfortable pants, a nice t-shirt, matching zippered sweatshirt, a pair of cute sandals, a small package of tissues and a little note. I saw how that helped someone in need. It made me cry to watch her read the note and realize it was a church near where I lived that packed up that little care package. I called the church the next day, just to tell them that I was there when the package made it to its recipient and how much it helped. I feel like every time I help, I see small miracles and it really touches me so deeply.

I tell my family and friends, I went from one extreme of volunteering to the other! From taking a bright, bubbly 7 year old to a ball game or a movie and now to going to a hospital in a time of crisis. No matter what I do though, I get a sense of fulfillment out of volunteering. It fulfills a part of me that nothing else can.

Have any of you volunteered? What motivates you to contribute? Do you believe in Random Acts of Kindness?

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Tina~in_ut said...

yay bebbi...I'll read it later..gotta go to the dmv and get a 16yr old his license~

Lynn D said...

Morning Glories!

Tina got first! DMV 16 year old? Ok you get the medal of courage today! LOL

Bebbi wonderful blog! Kudos to you for your volunteer work!

I volunteer as most people on the blog know in my local foodbank. Yes it is very rewarding and at times can be exhausting,frustrating,complex but ultimately very rewarding.

I encourage everyone when they have the time to pick a program and volunteer it can change a persons life.

Lately I have been thinking about going through the Redcross training but am just waiting to see what shakes out here at home before I make the big decision.

I hope everyone has a wonderful day.

Dianne in Denver: I am still keeping the prayers and thoughts going for your daughter. I am glad to hear that the surgery yesterday went well and now I am waiting anxiously for good results on the biopsies for the lymph nodes.

DonnaJean thoughts with you and Laurie Elizabeth today! I hope all goes smoothly. I have an Uncle with a pace maker and he says it has changed his life.

iteach said...

Bebbi- What an excellent blog!!!

I have always thought it is easier to give money then your time to an organization.

I am guilty of doing that.

Before all my children were born, I did do volunteer work for our "Let's feed the children" program.

During the summer our town and the town next to ours makes free sack lunches for the children.

There is about eight different buildings in the two towns where all the sack lunches are and the children just have to come to the door to get one.

I am really proud that our town does that and that we have a lot of volunteers every year that help with that program.

I had a lot of fun doing it. I'm hoping next summer to volunteer again for it.

iteach said...

Does giving blood count?

night.owls.sb said...

Tina:
Congrats on First....

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Attn: Utah Shoppers! 16yr old on the road! Watch Out

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night.owls.sb said...

Good Morning, Lynn D and Iteach :O)

night.owls.sb said...

Yes iteach I would say it does!

night.owls.sb said...

Bebbi:
Congrats on your first Night Owl Blog! Thanks for writing it and sending it off to me. Glad you are here at the nest!

night.owls.sb said...

Lynn D:
I have always said I so admire your foodbank volunteering! Kudos!

night.owls.sb said...

Off to work for me...

Hope all has a great day!

:O)

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Bebbi - Contrats on your first blog. I will read it in just a few minutes.

Good Morning Tina - Congrats on being first. I see it's a big day to for you.

Good Morning Lynn, Iteach and Carol. I'll be right back.

Lynn D said...

Iteach: Yes giving blood counts!!!

Thank you Carol. I have learned from volunteering that it is volunteers and non profits who hold this country together.

Hi Tinka good morning to you!

goldie said...

Good morning Hooters and yeah for tina~ and being first.
May I send you my heartfelt sympathy on the drivers license thingy. It is a curse and blessing. You will forever worry but dang its great to send them for that gallon of milk when you don't feel like it!

Bebbi- your blog is great. I have done various volunteer work over the years, and it is the best feeling in the world to make a difference in someones life.

MY youngest son has always volunteered- currently he does the San Fransisco Aid Crisis Hotline. But he has worked with planned parenthood, the American Red Cross, the Rodney Scheel house (a home for aids patients) and various others. I think that is one of the things that makes us so proud of him. He parties like any other young person- but he always has time to help out. I honestly can say that I wish I was more like him in that way.

Day 2 of firemen (they are not as cute today). I feel like I am on a parade route with all the traffic going by to see the building. Today they are going to knock some of the walls down, so still have to park in the median on the road.

Hope everyone has a good day!

Tinkatia said...

Good morning Goldie - I agree with you about our children getting their driving licenses. Up until they are teenagers you know early in the evening that they are safely tucked into bed. Then they get old enough to date and be in cars with friends. I always preferred my kids to be doing the driving because I just didn't know how the others drove. Either way I would love to hear them come in at night and know they were safely home. I still worry when my family drives away, especially my son who must drive over the Malahat. There have been more accidents and deaths on that highway than any other in Canada. I am always praying that the guardian angels are doing their work.

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goldie said...

OMG- you guys have to come over here and see this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A firetruck that is here on scene while they do the investigation, and I guess knock down a wall just pulled out of the drive and in front of my building.

Out gets the driver, comes around to the side of the truck and pulls out his fire gear.(he was in a tshirt and blue pants). So all of a sudden he takes his pants off!! Yes, in front of my window standing in his jockey shorts then puts on his fire gear. No shit! LOL

I couldn't pay for this type of entertainment on the job.......:) :)

hartldo said...

Good morning Owls!

Congrats on first Tina!

ibebold: I would've sent you a MySpace message for your anniversary yesterday but I don't know who you are on there. Please look for me. I'm D0NNA over there. Thanks!

A WONDERFUL blog bebbi!
My volunteering is all related to my children. I was my son's room-mom from k-6. I was his den mother and worked at the Trading Post at Boy Scout camp. Went on field trips, band trips, etc. Was, and still am, an active member of the PTC. (We call it the Parent/Teacher Club here.) The PTC does A LOT!!!!!!!!!

I'm now room-mom for my daughter's class. I volunteer enough at her Circus Arts studio that it could be counted as a full-time job. I volunteer at our local museum, where our whole family are members. I'm starting my 5th year as a Girl Scout Leader, where our troop volunteers all over the place most of the year.

You're right bebbi...The rewards are immeasurable! It gives you such a great feeling. So glad you wrote a blog about this because maybe it will spur someone to become a volunteer somewhere. The needs out there are great. You won't have any trouble finding a place that needs you.

I certainly admire you for the work you do, bebbi! MAJOR KUDOS!!!

Bebbilane said...

Thanks to everyone! I am on my phone but am excited to read the comments and hear about other people's experiences! Coming to u live from the "batphone" again. My daughter broke her foot a couple of days ago and my mom is having car "issues" so I apologize in advance for my slow, but well meaning, responses. Also, I will have to sharpen my #2 pencil!!!!!! Hugs and thanks - bebbi

Tinkatia said...

Bebbi - What a great blog. I certainly admire the work you do and have done through the years. I don't know what we would do without our volunteers.
We need so many of them in this city because we have so many elderly here. I wish I could say I did a lot of volunteering. My intentions were good. When I retired, I was planning on volunteering at the schools in our district. Teacher Aids are so in demand. Then I found I was needed to be the care giver to my grandchildren. I do volunteer a lot of my time when I am at my mother's care home. It isn't just my mom I look after. They are so short staffed that I am always getting something or doing something for the other men and women too. Some of them never get a visitor.
Each day I am there, I take Tango and Tia to each person who likes dogs. It makes them so happy. There is one lady who never speaks unless she sees a dog. And then she repeats. "Oh Teddy, Oh Teddy", over and over again. My mother has been in care for 8 years so I guess I could say I have done volunteer work. It isn't however organized work like you do Bebbi. You should get a medal for what you do.

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hartldo said...

lynn: I really admire you, too, for the time you put in at the foodbank. MORE MAJOR KUDOS!

Tina: Yikes! Another driver in the family! Good luck!!!!

iteach: You're an elementary school teacher. My lord, I KNOW what elementary school teachers go through! NOT taking away from teachers of the higher grades but I've worked K-12 and, let me tell y'all, elementary school teachers have to be teachers, mothers(fathers), mentors, nurses, therapists, artists, negotiaters, wranglers, maids....the list goes on and on. AND they certainly do NOT get paid enough for the work they do. Countless volunteer hours go into being a school teacher, and people just don't realize that. So, my hat goes off to you iteach, and I think there may be other teachers here too. You all impress and inspire me.

Lynn D said...

Goldie hurry go over and volunteer to help the firemen! You can offer your office as a dressing room! Get pictures please!

Tinkatia said...

Good Morning Donna - I was just reading the sweet comment you left on myspace. Thank you very much.

Tina - I was busy yesterday and wasn't on the blog. I spent the day with my mom and then Brian and I went to see the lights one last time this season at Butchart's. It was such a glorious warm evening.
I didn't have a chance to say how pretty your picture was. You look the same now as then.

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Donna - I agree with every you said about Elementary Teachers. They work so hard and should be paid so much more.

ibebold said...

Good morning all.....
Tina---
congrats on 1st!!!!!

Bebbi great blog!!!!!

I used to be a member of a ladies auxillary and we did wonderful things... we did raffles ever weekend for " our selcted charities"... we would put on 2 major benifits a year... they took alot of planning...
but we would help people in need in our little town.. and we would donate money to bigger charities...
I really miss it...

too many thieves came in and took over our little club.... the mens part.. anyway... . that is a whole other story for a whole other day!!!!

I admire what you do... that is soooo hard to be able to comfort people in that time in their life!!!


Have a a million things to get done today....
hope you all have a great day....

Bon'O said...

Bebbi~~What a VERY well-written and inspirational blog! Kudos to you for your efforts with BB/BS and women in crisis.

And to the rest of us who volunteer...keep on keeping on. That's what made this a great country and (sorry for the cynicism)just might bring it back from the edge!

While I 'dabble' in other causes, my volunteer organization of choice is Habitat for Humanity. There's something very rewarding about working shoulder-to-shoulder with folks to literally 'build' a better life for their families and be contributing members of the community. I've found most can't wait to be able to "pay it forward".

MEK in AZ said...

Happy Thursday!!

Good Morning...

Tina - pulling her hair out - in UT - congrats on FIRST and good luck with the "teenage driver" - I'm sure he will be FINE!!!

Goldie - I bet you didn't take a camera to work today - did you??!!

Waving howdy to Tina, Lynn D, Iteach, Cpgem, Tinka, Goldie, Hart, Bebbi, IBB, and Bono.

Bebbi - congrats on your first blog and GOOD JOB!! Kudos for your volunteer work..

Mr. MEK and I volunteer our money to several selected charities.

I'm off to pick up my glasses - can't wait to get them!!
:-)

I hope everyone has an excellent day!!
:-)

Lynn D said...

I wanted to comment on Iteach's post about giving money.

Don't ever think of it as just giving money. Money is so important to so many charities!

Our foodbank realizes that many people have such a shortage of time that they only way they can support their favorite charities is to give with money. We are always thrilled with any dollar donation that is given in our name. That money helps buy food, diapers, baby food, hygiene items gas for our volunteers to go pick up food from donors at the grocery stores etc.. It also helps to keep out lights and heat on. Often times it helps pay the insurance for the building and to help with repairs. It is used in so many ways that we could not operate with out it.

I do have to say that our foodbank is unique and is talked about in the foodbank circles in our area because we do not have any paid positions. It is all 100 percent volunteer hours. From just helping weekly to our paper work.

Some of you may not know that this is a major issue as many non profits only function because they receive grants to pay a director and other admin positions. We took a pledge to not go this route as we did not want to create an enviroment of if they get paid why can't I? For now it has worked for us and we will continue this policy. I do understand why some have to as their programs become so large and it is very hard to find people who can volunteer 40 or more hours a week to keep things going.

I have to say I like our grass roots approach. We also did not partner with any religious organization. We did this with major consideration and thought. We wanted a place were people could come and would not feel like they were being influenced in any way.

We just wanted to feed hungry people. No judgements. This is why I keep volunteering there.

Lynn D said...

Sorry for any spelling and grammatical errors in that last post. I can't decide if I have had too much coffee or not enough! LOL

sacBarb said...

Happy Thong Thursday Owls.

Bebbi, Great blog today. Kudos to you for all the time you give to a very important cause. I worked an agency that funded Public Safety and Victim Services organizations and the volunteers are their lifeline.

Currently I volunteer at our local foodbank, but I am not as active as Lynn D. I only work there one morning a week. I should do more.

I also volunteer at Christmas Promise, which is an organization that provides Christmas gifts to approx. 300 families who otherwise wouldn't have a Christmas. We start gathering donations in late November and work through December. Throughout the year, I also help decorate approx. 1000 Christmas stockings for needy children. I love this organization because it is totally staffed by volunteers. Every penny that is donated goes to the families. And I so agree with those who have said how rewarding it is to be a volunteer. I love it.

sacBarb said...

I have another volunteer position at 3 local theatre companies. I really feel that this is a paid position because I get to see all the plays.

I am not helping them as much as they are allowing me the privilege of seeing plays I would otherwise not be able to afford. Although, the management of all these organizations tells us that without the volunteers, they would not be able to put on the wonderful productions they do.

Two of the companies conduct Children's theatre workshops and work closely with schools to keep kids involved in the arts. Tim Busfield started one of the theatres and his brother works there full time. These two have given back so much to the community, especially schools, that I am honored to be a part of this group.

sacBarb said...

Tina, congrats on # 1 today. Good luck to your son on his DMV test and good luck to you, too. If you don't color your hair yet, you will soon!

Lynn D. I admire the amount of time and work you put in with the food bank.

Iteach, giving blood is as important as any other volunteer work. It saves lives.

Goldie gets to see the firemen with their long hoses again. Yay!!

Tinka, The people in the 'home' are blessed to have you there with your fur babies.

Hartldo, I used to be a Den mother and I know how rewarding being a Girl Scout Leader can be. Kudos to you.

IBB, Planning benefits can be a major stresser. My Hubby used to put on golf tournaments to benefit Hospice. The first one he did brought $6,000 profit that was donated to Hospice. We did 6 before he died and the final one brought $60,000 that was donated to Hospice. And all of it was done with volunteers.

Bon'O, Habitat for Humanity is a wonderful cause.

MEK, As Lynn D, said, without the financial donations, some of the charitable organizations would not be able to continue. Thank you for that.

Tinkatia said...

SacBarb - Thank you for the kind comment. I think the ladies and men at Glenwarren really love having Tango and Tia visit them. Most of them had pets in the past and long for them now.

DreamaTexas said...

Bebbi
what an excellant blog!And kudos to you! I always wanted to be a part of BB&BS program when I was younger but as things turned out I took in my 2 & 4 year old niece and nephew and then later in life I took in 2 girls. I had dated their Dad briefly. He was worthless. Their Mother had remarried and was grateful that I'd keep her girls all summer long and every week end. So needless to say she wasn't any better than their Dad.
For many years now I have worked with animal rescue. It's not all fun and games. It can be very heart wrenching and exhausting. What angers me is when people try to persuade me that it's too depressing and they rather not know what goes on. I don't think people should ever stick their heads in the sand or not get involved in helping whether it be animal rescue, cancer patients, the elderly, BB& BS, rape crisis, suicide hotlines or any of the many organizations out there that need help.
A lot of people have too much time on their hands and could be spending their free time giving of themselves instead of sitting at a computer venting and trying to create viruses, ruin blogs, hack profiles and all of the common things I'm sure that we all hear about now days.
I am very proud to know you Bebbi!

Sandie said...

Bebbi, fabulous blog! I so admire your volunteer work! You have a very kind heart.

Tina, congrats on first! And, welcome to the world of teen-age car insurance . . . LOL!

Lynn, you are so committed to your food bank--very admirable!!

I am like Donna--I currently do and have volunteered at school as a room mother, office helper, guidance helper, etc. I have held just about every position in Cub Scouts. I have always enjoyed it but mighty glad those cub days are over!

I currently volunteer in the office at the high school--very interesting place to be!!

Bebbi, I have always felt a pull towards helping with domestic abuse victims and you've inspired me to look into that. Thank you!

I love doing things for others--there's no feeling like it!

Hellos to iteach (ditto what Donna said about teachers), Carol, Tinka, Goldie, Donna, MEK, IBB, Bon'O, and sacbarb!!

Sandie said...

Hey Dreama! Thank you for all you do for animal rescue. Your commitment is awesome.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Tina congrats on 1st and to your son for getting his drivers license!

Bebbi what an excellent blog! You do such wonderful work. It must be very difficult to see people after they have suffered such trama. It takes a very special personality to be able to comfort someone after that. You are doing a wonderful thing for your community. Standing ovation for you!
Clap!Clap!clap!
Go Bebbi!Go Bebbi!Go Bebbi!
Clap!Clap!Clap!

whabbear said...

Bebbi, I just finished joining in Shirley's Standing O, and now I'm saluting you! You do good in the world, kid!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Good morning/afternoon to everyone! I'm too tired to name you individually. I stayed up until 2:30 waiting for the rain to stop so they could continue the Canada/USA softball game, but they didn't. It will be finished sometime tonight I guess.

You all do such wonderful thing for your community. All the organizations are very lucky to have you. Where would the Olympics be without all the volunteers?

I have helped out at the canteen in the arena and driven people to the city for appointments on occassion. I have helped seniors with their income tax for no fee. I usually charge $25.00 but I can't justify chargeing someone on a fixed income that amount, and they are always very grateful.

Goldie please keep us updated on the firemen and their hoses! Video would be good!

Dianne, Tammy, Donna Jean and Laurie Elizabeth I'm sending ((((((((HUGS)))))))) for all of you.

whabbear said...

Shirley: ROFLMAO@ Firemen "and their hoses"! Yes, video would be welcome!

Just_Lin said...

SacBarb I just have to say, Custard is a volunteer wildland firefighter. I'm looking forward to seeing him and his long hose in just 16 more days. :)

OK, back to reading comments.....

whabbear said...

J/L: Should we expect a video blog? LOL!

DreamaTexas said...

Before I rush off I'd like to give a shout out to ReneeEve.
She is one of the most giving people that I know. She raises 3 boys and she takes care of her Mom 24/7. She is a very devoted and caring soul! ReneeEve's work is not charity but it is extremely admirable that she gives of her life so unselfishly and with such a big heart. So to you ReneeEve I send to you many xoxo's!

DreamaTexas said...

Thank you Sandie! I appreciate your kind words as always! :0)
Gotta run. I am going to go spend some time with my parents and see if they need anything.

Bebbilane said...

Tina congrats on first, if I didn't say that already. It has been quite a day for me.

Hello to tina,LynnD, iteach, Carol, Goldie, Whabby, Dreama, Shirley, Tink, Hart, IBB, Mek, Bon'o, Sandie, and J/L.

Lynn: I remember you talking about the food bank. My daughter does "Dare to Care" here in Louisville. She sorts cans, fills backpacks for a weekend program for kids who might not get a meal all weekend and goes to their festivals. She really likes it too. I think that the foodbank has to be very rewarding because you know you are helping people so much by providing them a decent meal.

Iteach: That is a big way to help, by giving money, because it is definitely equally as important!

Goldie: That is awesome about your son. My daughter is like that too. You should be proud. :) What an awesome guy. I don't know many boys that are that way so young. He must have a tremendous heart!! :)
I am LOVIN the fireman stories!! LOL on the guy undressing right there..I bet he knows he has people looking..LOL!!

Hart: I can relate to the volunteering for the children. I did that a lot too, but I worked fulltime so I could never be there during the day. It sure sounds like you did a wonderful thing though. I was always envious of mother's like you, because I always had to work, work, work. :( I did make sure I went on at least one field trip each year, helped with as much in the evening and all that though.

Bon'o: My boss does Habitat for Humanity that is an awesome organization!!

Sandie: I hope you do look into it. I have found it an amazing experience. It's nice to be able to help others in such a critical and delicate time of need.

Shirley: You better stop that right now. (teasingly wagging my finger at you and grinning) I didn't write it for any accolades. My idea in writing the blog was to maybe inspire others and tell about something that means a lot to me. :) Thank you for your sweetness though, you are an awesome lady.

Now I have gone on enough. I am going to tend to my daughter and see how my hubby is because he just came in the door. I will bbl.

I will comment on more when I get back..again, sorry for the extremely lengthy comment!

Just_Lin said...

Bebbi Congratulations on writing your first blog. It was wonderful! Thank you for all you do to help those women when they are at their most vulnerable.

LynnD All the hours you put in at the food bank are truly admirable,too.

What I see here today, besides firemen and their hoses, are how giving and loving all the owls are. It seems everyone here is a giver in one way or the other. No wonder I love having you as friends.

I really can't say I've done that much volunteering besides the usual school related things when my kids were young. For many years I was involved in feral cat/kitten rescue, if that counts. Otherwise, I am a generous giver to several worthy causes and contribute to the food drives.

Goldie Well, you got a free show today. How lucky for you! Did you know firemen have two types of hoses; hard and soft? They also cross-lay hose. LOL

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Well I just did one of the things I have been putting off for about three months...I ordered some parts for my CPAP machine. I know, big deal, but with no money coming in I was worrying on how I would pay for it. Well I guess Visa will take care of it for now. My humidifier has been making a noise that is keeping me awake and I need to get it fixed or replace (fixed I hope is cheaper, cause replacement is about $350.00). I also needed filters and a new headgear.

Now if I could just make that other call. I don't know why I am sharing all this with you guys but anyway I did. This has been my exciting day! WOOHOO!! I'll be back later.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

JustLin your knowledge of firemen's hoses is AMAZING!! Lol!

Bebbilane said...

Tink: I think what you do is the most rewarding. Just helping others is the best!! Organized, not-organized, big, little, for family, for friends or for strangers. All of it is kindness.

I love the thought of you taking the dogs. I bet that means so much to the people who love animals. I couldn't live without my animals. They are my world! :)

Whabby: You stop that too! ;0

I have had the most exhausting day ever. My daughter fractured her foot in three places and we spent the afternoon at the orthopaedic specialist, where my daughter broke into tears when she saw the boot. See link:

http://www.braceshop.com/productcart/pc/viewPrd.asp?idproduct=933&idcategory=0

To which, I told her I would not get the boot if she wasn't going to wear it, to which she responded that she wasn't going to wear it, to which the doctor's and nurses flipped out, to which brought a flood of tears, to which the technician said to her, "You are 18 years old and you have broken your foot, it is time for you to grow up and be responsible for yourself." To which my daughter FINALLY acknowledged and agreed she would where it, to which lead to her getting it fitted and on her foot. Sheesh. Why oh Why do kids have to be so difficult and do they EVER grow up??? *rolling eyes*

Stressful day. only worked half of it so a less pay next week AND a big medical bill. *sigh* Okay..whine OVER.

Bebbilane said...

Shirley, great job on ordering the CPAP parts!! Your body will thank you for the extra oxygen every night!

hartldo said...

Bebbi: I work full-time too (except in the summer). I'm just lucky that I've always had jobs that I can get off long enough to be a part of my kids' school functions. When I had my state job, I just took vacation time to go to my son's school activities. Then I stopped working when he was 10 and my daughter was born. I went back to work when she started Kindergarten, but I worked at her school. That was so nice. I'd just pop in and out of her clas if there was a party in her room. Or I'd be there anyway for a program or assembly. Now that she's at a different school, it makes things difficult. I only got to attend two functions at her school last year, but her homeroom teacher still asked me to be room-mom. She wanted me to call everyone, organize everything and make sure there were parents there to help. So I did a lot of work for her AFTER my work hours.
You know what they always say.....Find the busiest person you can, and that person will get the job done.

Bebbilane said...
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Bebbilane said...

Sorry had to delete that comment, the boot link still didn't work. It is for an aircast boot if you want to see it. Also, here is the link to the actual manufacturer.

http://www.buyaircast.com/sp-walker.htm

Tinkatia said...

I just wanted to check in. I was about to leave for the Farmer's market in Sidney and then to have dinner by the sea. I am sorry I haven't been too communicative on the blog these past couple of days but there has been a lot happening in the family this week. I should be back to normal soon. I would like to wish all owls a great afternoon and evening. I will be back late tonight or in the morning. (((Hugs)))) and prayers for Tammy and Laurie. Love, Tinka
Love, Tinka

hartldo said...

bebbi: So sorry about your stressful day, and your daughter's broken foot. Oh, and of course, medical bills! I can sooooo relate!

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Bebbilane said...

Hart: Isn't that the truth! I worked retail so I had the advantage of having some mornings off to do some of those things. Nice though that you could pop in to the class and all. :)

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Tinkatia said...

Finally, I straightened out my march. Sorry I messed up the numbers. See you all later.

Bebbilane said...

lol sorry folks

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67 and I will leave it at that.

Tinkatia said...

I left for 15 minutes. Is the nest empty?

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Tinkatia said...

I am late now so TTFN.

Just_Lin said...

Oooh! Tinka got a 69! Congratulations! It sounds like you have a very nice evening planned. Enjoy!

MEK in AZ said...

Good Early Evening..

My favorite thing to volunteer for is the Professional Golf tournaments!! That is probably my most favorite week of the whole year!!! We get the top 64 players in the World - can't get any better than that.. all the sponsors are crossing their fingers that Tiger Woods has fully recovered from his knee surgery by Feb...

we used to have several women's tournaments that we volunteered for also - but their sponsors canceled - and with no money - there is no tournament..

any word yet from Donna Jean??!!

hope everyone is having a great day!!

MEK in AZ said...

Goldie - was the fireman wearing boxers or briefs??!!
:-)

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sacBarb said...

Hello everyone. Donna Jean just called as I was headed out the door, but I'll give a quick update.

Laurie is doing well and the pacemaker is in and working. They did have a problem getting her IV in and Donna finally had to go into the OR to help calm Laurie and they finally were able to put it in her foot.

Donna is going to try to post a comment after her other daughter goes home. She thanks everyone for their prayers and thoughts.

I have to run. I am going to meet some former co-workers for dinner. BBL

MEK in AZ said...

SacBarb -- thanks for taking the time to give us the update!!! Have fun with your friends.

Donna Jean - SO happy to hear that all is well...

I'm trying to get used to these new glasses - wow - what a difference it makes when you can actually SEE!!!!!!!!!
:-)

hartldo said...

Thanks, SacBarb, for letting us know about Laurie E. An IV in the foot sounds painful!
((((HUGS)))) to Donna Jean & Laurie Elizabeth!

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hartldo said...

Who is it here that likes round numbers? I like 'em too. :)

Lynn D said...

Thanks for the update on Laurie Elizabeth Sacbarb!

I like round numbers until I step on to the scale! LOL

It is way to hot here and I am going to go lay down.

Hope everyone has a great evening!

goldie said...

Good evening Hooters.

I am sorry to report that my firemen rolled up their hoses and left this afternoon. Whatever will I do for entertainment tomorrow morning??

MEK- He was wearing boxers- but they were oh so snug fitting boxer briefs ;0) prrrrrrrrrr.....

Thanks for the update Sacbarb- keeping good thoughts for Laurie. Ouchie on the IV in the foot.

When my son was 6 weeks old he was hopitilized because of his intolerence to milk (formula), they had to drug him, wrap his little arms up in a blanket and put the IV in his head because his little arms and legs were to small. I still get the willey's when I remember having to hold him while they did that..

Back to the Olympics- bbl

hartldo said...

Oh, goldie, how awful to see your baby like that.

hartldo said...

Oh, goldie, how awful to see your baby like that.

Bebbilane said...

Jeez, what a bummer Goldie! I would be really sad. It sure sounded like you had top notch entertainment. :) I enjoyed hearing about it too!

Back finally, Mom's car was just out of gas, not the battery. phew..day from a rather hot place you go to if you don't go to heaven over here.

Bebbilane said...

Donna, Glad to hear that Laurie is doing well. Sacbarb, thanks for keeping us up to date!

Dianne/Denver said...

Hello Owls: I have been trying to read all the comments and have enjoyed reading them. Gosh darn it Bebbi, I have been procrastinating for over a year plus trying to get the courage just to write on volunteering! Now I will be thinking of another topic for the next year :)

TINA: Good luck with your son driving. I still am not too crazy to ride with my son especially since he is uaually in a police car...I think he always thinks he is and I am not too thrilled with that at all.

Tammy has been sleeping most of the day unless she was throwing up and that was frequently. I called the dr and they gave her a different pain pill and medicine for nausea. She has been in quite a bit of pain as well. She did send me on an errand for diet sprite and milk duds!

Kids and husband are doing fine. Thank you so much for all the well wishes, prayers, etc. I appreciate them so much.

Bebbilane said...

Tina, Is the 16 year old excited? Did they pass the test?


Hart: I like round numbers too.

Bebbilane said...

90~!

Bebbilane said...

Dianne!! Thanks, so good to see you. Sorry I took your topic. But, Carol says just to write it anyway, because it will always be different than someone else's so the more the merrier on the volunteer blogs!

Glad to hear things are going okay. Sorry to hear about the nausea.

I think that everyone is Olympic crazy in the nest lately! WE need a television up here to watch the Olympics together!

goldie said...

hopitilized is a word I made up all by myself :) but you guys got my drip anyway.

YES Donna I cried and cried and felt like the worst mother in the world. But we got him over the hump and he is now 6'5 and about 290. So no damage done there!

Yes, it is sad my firemen are gone, but the good news is that the construction guys are going to have to come raze the place and clean-up, so there is still hope of hunk sightening!

Night everyone, I am crawling into bed and watching the Olympics for a while.

goldie said...

holy crap- hunk sightening?? sighting!!!!!!!!! I must really need to go to bed. lol

Dianne/Denver said...

Years ago I used to volunteer with the Homeless. That was a very interesting job and I came to look at the homeless in a whole new light. I was realizing that everyone without a place to stay was not the "kind" of person I thought they would be. There were some just like you and me and so many battered women with children. Anyway, my dad got sick so I had to quit doing that work.

I started doing volunteer with Hospice almost a year ago. I am assigned a few patients and visit with them and their family. So far they have all been at nursing homes. It has been sad but it also has been rewarding helping with the families and knowing a patients wishes were being carried out. There is a lot of training with this particular Hospice and then more every quarter but it is so interesting to listen to the nurses, chaplains and social workers talk to us.

Both of my parents were in Hospice before they died. They only were there for pretty short times but Hospice was so nice and so caring with us. My biggest experience with Hospice was after my husband died. He died suddenly so Hospice wasn't involved but when trying to find a grieving group, Hospice was the only one that would take me before six months had gone by. I needed grieving help right then...not in six months. I will always feel that I owe my sanity today to Hospice for helping me so much and caring.

night.owls.sb said...

Sacbarb:
Thanks for the update on Donna Jean!

Dianne:
Glad you daughter is resting, the first couple of days after surgery is always the worst. My special thoughts are being sent you way, for a bright outcome!

zona:
Hello!!! Can you hear me?

hartldo said...

Dianne: So glad you stopped in to fill us in about your daughter. I certainly hope the meds for nausea have kicked in. That is a terrible thing to go through when you're already in pain. I hope you both rest well tonight.

Our nest is full of very kind, caring people, and I learned that even more today by reading this blog and the comments. I'm honored to know you all.

Going to bed now. See you in the a.m.

night.owls.sb said...

Bebbi:
Sorry about your daughters foot! Geez you sure did have a rough day!

Good Job on the blog today, and yes you are correct, even if a topic has been covered, the same topic from a different owl will always bring new perspective!

And I have a confession, I don't volunteer for anything, I did when I was younger, but not now...
Not really sure why tho, I guess I just never looked into it..

I do send donations to certain charities, and always give to my local police...

Does that count?

Oh, and I always donate to "Lane Bryant"...hmmmm, I guess that does not count tho :O)

night.owls.sb said...

Donna:
Right back attcha!

Good night...

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night.owls.sb said...

Well that was a no brainer!

night.owls.sb said...

Dianne:
You just reminded me I give to my local hospice as well, I think they are terrific, they took care of Aunt Jo, in her last most uncomfortable days!

I still miss her daily ♥♥

hartldo said...

Hi Carol! You've got gmail!
Let me know what you think. Thanks! Now, good night, for real.

night.owls.sb said...

Thanks Donna, I will check my gmail, and get back to you!

:O)

iteach said...

I'm so exhausted!

We were at our county fair for six hours, but we had the greatest time.

The kids went on rides, played only two games (way too expensive), watched a free puppet show, and watched a really cool free horse show.

I love watching the horses perform.

Bebbilane said...

Dianne: I think that a lot of the things we volunteer for are for reasons unique to us. I chose BB/BS because I had a stepmother who always did stuff with me and knew how to have fun. She taught me a lot, and it made me want to do that for another young person.

Bebbilane said...

iteach! Sounds like so much fun! The state fair is here this week and next. I want to go and look around. I love that stuff. The Village People are playing one night for free too..can we have a
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iteach said...

Shirley, I'm glad you shared all that with us.

Tomorrow we have replace our driver's side window. We got a deal for $240, but still not excited about paying for it.

I would be more excited, if it was a new TV!

Bebbilane said...

Also, too cool, I think Michael Phelps just won another one. Just hearing on the tv, they are playing the anthem!

iteach said...

Wow, the Village People are going to be at your fair, that would be fun.

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My comment posted twice, so I deleted it. :)

night.owls.sb said...

iteach:
The State Fair, sounds like fun! The best part for me would be the food..

Shirley:
I am glad you are taking care of you!
Thanks for sharing...

Bebbilane said...

Kentucky State Fair "Free" Concerts:

P.O.D. with special guest Pop Evil
Thursday, August 14
8 p.m.

Boyz II Men with special guest Midnight Star
Friday, August 15
8 p.m.

Joan Jett & the Blackhearts
Saturday, August 16
8 p.m

An Evening with The Oak Ridge Boys with special guest The Roys
Sunday, August 17
8 p.m.

Newsboys with special guest Article One
Monday, August 18
8 p.m.

Josh Turner with special guest Candy Coburn
Tuesday, August 19
8 p.m.

Gary Lewis and the Playboys, Billy J. Kramer, Gary US Bonds and Andy Kim
Wednesday, August 20
8 p.m.

Country Gold Tour 2008" Featuring Leroy Van Dyke and the Auctioneers, Jim Ed Brown, Helen Cornelius, Bobby Bare, Steve & Rudy Gatlin and T.G. Sheppard
Thursday, August 21
8 p.m.

Village People with special guest The Richie Family
Friday, August 22
8 p.m.

Travis Tritt
Saturday, August 23
8 p.m.

Anybody wanna come? Just the cost of the fair ticket. so I guess not 100% free.

Bebbilane said...

Okay, I am being silly..going to watch the Olympics and get some sleep..night all!!

DreamaTexas said...

Bebbi
I saw Joan Jett! She shaved her head! She can really wail out some rebel yells!
I Love Rock & Roll!

DreamaTexas said...

I also like C&W!
:0)

iteach said...

Good night Bebbi, I look forward to more of your blogs. :)

night.owls.sb said...

Bebbi:
Silly and Tedious, are always welcomed here :O)

Good Nite to you!

night.owls.sb said...

I am off to bed as well, Hope everyone has s good nite ♥♥♥

Tinka:
Thinking of you!!! ♥♥

iteach said...

Good night Carol, sweet dreams!

Bon'O said...

Thanks again, Bebbi, for the TOTD and to EVERYONE for the good that you do! Your list from the KY State Fair reminded me...a week or so ago I got the lineup for the 2008 *Puyallup (Pew*AL*up) Fair, and immediately my thoughts went to what a perfect place it'd be for an Owl Retreat!

Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons for Carol!, Carrie Underwood for MEK!, Kid Rock to celebrate 'All Summer Long"!, Fergie ........etc., etc.:

Puyallup Fair 2008 Concerts:

Mon 9/8 - The Black Crowes
Tues 9/9 - Casting Crowns
Wed 9/10 - Kid Rock
Thurs 9/11 - Sara Evans & Josh Gracin
Fri 9/12 - TBD
Sat 9/13 - Orange County Choppers
Sun 9/14 - Latino Celebration
Mon 9/15 - Ronnie Milsap with Tacoma Symphony
Tues 9/16 - Fergie
Wed 9/17 - Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons
Thurs 9/18 - Al Jarreau & The Manhattan Transfer
Fri 9/19 - Carrie Underwood
Sat 9/20 - Michael W. Smith & Steven Curtis Chapman
Sun 9/21 - Doodlebugs Live!

and THE greatest Fair on the planet!!

iteach said...

That is my birthday week, I will be there!

I'm off to bed, good night everyone!

Tinkatia said...

I am just checking in. I arrived home a few minutes ago from the Sidney Street Market. It was fun but I didn't want to eat anything from the side venders so we went to a restaurant. It reminded me of Octoberfest in Cincinnati. It was still very hot at six l'clock so I feel a little burned. I am off to bed. I will read the comments tomorrow.
((((Hugs)))) to Tammy and Laurie. God bless them and all of us. Love, Tinka

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MEK in AZ said...

Hey everyone...

The coverage of tonight's Olympics is AMAZING!!

Seems like it's taking FOREVER for the gymnastics to start!!

But - I'm up for the duration!!!

I hope everyone has an excellent Friday!!
:-)

Tina~in_ut said...

Bebbi~ What a fantastic blog~ Very well written and your passion for volunteering shines thru~

Thank you to everyone for cracking me up with your driver's license comments. My son is now a driver......he just needs insurance....anyone want to volunteer? :)~ he-he....that wasn't even supposed to be that funny! :D

Sorry...I'm punchy....it's been such a long day at work...so busy.....

Goldie~ You cracked me up with your peep show~ Please take your camera to work!

LynnD~ you continue to amaze me with your volunteering~

SacBarb~ I grew another inch of gray today....I've got a call in to my hair dresser! :D

Tinka~ Big fat hug and Hot Hunk for you~ :)

OMG!!! I just realized I was off a half hour ago....how dumb!!! UGH!!!

Bebbi~ I don't volunteer except at school. Well I do some...but not much. My mother does a ton....I should take after her more~ again...GREAT blog~ Can't wait for the next~

Tina~in_ut said...

...btw....

~H A P P Y~
~B I R T H D A Y~
~V I G~

Tina~in_ut said...

Tina~in_ut~ Congrats on first~

Tina~in_ut said...

lynn d~ bestest volunteer in town~

Tina~in_ut said...

iteach~ hey to the bestest teacher~

Tina~in_ut said...

Carol~ hey to the bestest crackwhore~

Tina~in_ut said...

Tinka~ the sweetest of lady's~

Just_Lin said...

Hey Tina Congrats on first this morning! :)

Tina~in_ut said...

Goldie~ hey to the fireman hose watcher~ :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Hart~ God bless your basement~

whabbear said...

Late night greetings, Linda and Tina!

Tina~in_ut said...

Bebbi~ hey to the bestest blogger~

Tina~in_ut said...

IBB~ did you get roses again today? :D

Just_Lin said...

HeyTina and Whabby!

Tina~in_ut said...

Bon'o~ i think I want to go to your fair~

Just_Lin said...

I don't think Tina sees us.

Tina~in_ut said...

MEK~ hey to the scrapbooker extraordinaire....from the scrapHooker extraordinaire~

Tina~in_ut said...

sacBarb~ wanna go back to Hawaii with me? :D

Tina~in_ut said...

Sandie~ do you still have YOUR sweater? lol :D

Just_Lin said...

Yoo hoo! Tina!

Tina~in_ut said...

Shirley~ okay I have to admit...I thought you were talking about your C-crap machine earlier! :)~

Just_Lin said...

Tina Are you freakin' blind?

Tina~in_ut said...

Whabby~ so you stand for your O's? :)~

Just_Lin said...

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Tina~in_ut said...

JustLin~ I don't think you know this about me.....I'm blind....not really....but my mom only has one eye!

Tina~in_ut said...

Dianne_awesome_mom_in_Denver~ Glad daughter is home....praying for all of you~

Just_Lin said...

Tina No, I didn't know that. However, I've been waving at you like a maniac.

Tina~in_ut said...

DonnaJean~ Glad to hear Laurie came thru okay.....continued prayers~

Tina~in_ut said...

Zona~ I love your ass...and the rest of you too~

Tina~in_ut said...

Jodi~ I love everything about you except your ass~

Tina~in_ut said...

DeeDee~ I love you too....but you can keep that one eye!~ :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Kgrl~ where is your ass....and the rest of you~ I miss you~

Tina~in_ut said...

Mo~ Hey to the hardest working ho in the nest~ :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Ronnie~ (read this slowly and with a drawl!) hon....you're just awesome~

Tina~in_ut said...

Joey~ I hope you aren't being naughty...I read that myspace status~ :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Lovey~ get your ass back here, hon~

Tina~in_ut said...

Mary/Mi~ where are your winnings? I didn't get my take~

Tina~in_ut said...

EBJ~ hostess with the mostest~ :D

Tina~in_ut said...

Jennifer~ Hope you have a great school year~

Tina~in_ut said...

Scirish~ are you Irish? :)~

Tina~in_ut said...

Birdee~ where is your chicken owl ass?

whabbear said...

Tina: Yes, I lean to the left, lean to the right, stand up, sit down, and fight fight fight for my HO's!

Tina~in_ut said...

169~

Tina~in_ut said...

bear~ yeah...but will you do all that to get laid by one of us? :)~

whabbear said...

Only if you wear a strap-on!

Jodi said...

TINA - A very complete list!! You most certainly must have your #2 pencil sharpened and at the ready!!! I even scrolled 2 or 3 times. :D Oh, btw.....I'm saving my ass for a special someone anyway. :P

Tina~in_ut said...

bear~ uh...what's that?

Tina~in_ut said...

Jodi~ are you saving it for Bear? :)~

Just_Lin said...

LOL Strap on!

Jodi said...

TINA - uMMMMMMM......that would be a negatory!!!

whabbear said...

Um... well... blushing furiously (not!)... It's a dildo attached to a kind of a harness that lesbians "strap on" and use for "role playing"! LOL!

Jodi said...

Hey JUST LIN!!! Saw you waving like a maniac!!

whabbear said...

Hello, HOdi! Welcome to the late night sex party!

Tina~in_ut said...

Bear~ what's a dildo?

Jodi said...

TINA - Ask ZONA.....I think she has an extra neck massager at home!!!

Jodi said...

Hey WHABBY - My pleasure.....really!!!

whabbear said...

Hmmm... I shoulda known better than to fall for that!

Just_Lin said...

Bear I always thought that was more a straight male fantasy of what lesbians do. It seems if that's what a lesbian really wanted, she wouldn't be a lesbian.

Just_Lin said...

Bear Maybe you could write a blog on the subject. Bwahahaha!!!

whabbear said...

Linda: One would think, yes. Maybe we should defer to K'girl on this one!

Just_Lin said...

Where is Kgrl when we need her?

whabbear said...

Now, why would a straight guy want to bring a penis (or equivalent) into his lesbian sex fantasy?

Hmmmm... curiouser and curiouser!

Tina~in_ut said...

I'm confused.....bear...wouldn't he be bringing his own?

Just_Lin said...

Because he assumes all women crave his penis.

Just_Lin said...

Basically, "he" is the penis and "he's" having a 3-way! LOL

whabbear said...

Why do straight guys dig lesbian porn, but straight women have about as much interest in gay porn as in watching paint dry?

Yes, there are blogs galore being cooked up tonight! LOL!

Jodi said...

I don't know about any of that.....but I'm willing all my BOB'S to TINA!!!

whabbear said...

OK, I get it! He's fantasizing that it's HIS penis, and HE's got the goods to turn them on to heterosexuality!

Ah, straight guys! You gotta love 'em!

Just_Lin said...

BOBS!!! Another blog topic. Jodi I nominate you to write it!

whabbear said...

Tina: What are BOBs?

Tina~in_ut said...

Bear~ Bob Roman is the boy i liked my freshman year~ :D

Jodi said...

JUST LIN - I nominate LOVEY for that one.....her collection puts mine to shame!!! :P

Jodi said...

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Jodi said...

200!!!

Tina~in_ut said...

J/L~ Jodi can't write that blog....she'll never get it done...she'll keep doing research! :D

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