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Sunday, February 24, 2008

Words

from our dear night owl
shirley

who i happen to think
is very smart

Words

by shirley

I got the idea for this post from comments I read by Donna Jean about the word retarded.

"Sticks and stones may break your bones but names will never hurt you."

How many times have we heard that saying in our lives? More than I care to count, and it's so untrue. Wounds can heal, but, once a word has been spoken you can't take it back.

Being overweight I have been called every name in the book, but, the word that hurts the most is "stupid". I've heard it mainly from my mother. I don't think she realizes how hurt it makes me feel and I'm not able to tell her. I know the word "stupid" has had a huge influence over my life though. It has stopped me from doing so many things because I just don't think I'm smart enough.

Is there any one word that has affected your life...made you feel small and insignificant...or angry and outraged? Have you been hurt by a word? Do we even realize the power a word can have? I'd like to know what you think of words. Do you believe sticks and stone can break your bones but names will never hurt you? Hmmmmmmm.

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night.owls.sb said...

Ouch, shit that hurt

spring said...

Who got 200?????

night.owls.sb said...

Who got 200?

RonnieGirl said...

Not fair...was eating popcorn and not checking. congrats on being 1st.

spring said...

Woa..never been here for a short page

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

If anyone is interested I am wearing a 20 year old t-shirt and shorts made out of an old pair of pants...my usual nighttime attire.

RonnieGirl said...

IT WAS ME, IT WAS ME. I WAS #200.
YEAH FOR RONNIE.

night.owls.sb said...

ronniegirl

You did it...Happy Happy Dance...
Mek would be proud...

Good job, well not really, my back is killing me from the kick you gave me!

spring said...

ooolala Shirley

spring said...

God I love these flash backs...wow...

night.owls.sb said...

Shirley
I am interested as it sounds quite comfy...

Oh the breast, you need to ask mo as she seems to pop her
underwire from her bra, wherever she goes!

:O)

spring said...

Ronnie whoot to you..hey, you stomp in those heels

night.owls.sb said...

now mercy
I am loving the flashbacks as well!

Bon'O said...

Nowmercy~~I'm wearing my mauvy Nike fuzzy set, Ugg slippers, and one fat charcoal-grey cat, currently trying to spill my Diet Squirt on to my keyboard.

Oh, shivers up and down the arms over the Best Actress history clips.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

No Carol I didn't kick you. I got spun around about 25 times by the wind of the wings going by me. I'm a little dizzy. You guys are nuts at marching time. Geeezz!!

night.owls.sb said...

Here comes a big one!

RonnieGirl said...

Sorry Carol. I need to wake Dianne up and show her my award. Shirley, nice outfit...come sit by ,me and I'll share my blankie, but you got to keep it to a whisper...K?

ronnie

Bon'O said...

Please let it be La Vie en Rose!!!

night.owls.sb said...

shirley you are right it was not you it was ronnie, her owl foot print is in my back!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ellen Page, Ellen Page, Ellen Page....fingers and toes crossed for Ellen Page!!!!

Bon'O said...

YES!!!!!!!!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Ugly dress!

night.owls.sb said...

And the winner is (drumroll please)
.............................

Marion (something)...

bono
You must be happy!!!

spring said...

Oh wow the French can make thank you sound like an incredible sunrise...thankfully Ellen has time aheard of her...

night.owls.sb said...

ronnie
Please remind yourself what you are wearing, before you cut up a $5000.00 dress....

spring said...

BONO..sounds comfy..especially the fat gray cat. My doggie is sleeping soundly next to my chari.

Carol what color polish??

RonnieGirl said...

That french made her sound like an orgasam...is that how you spell it?
Beautifully said, I guess.

ronnie

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

OK RONNIEGIRL I'M COMING OVER TO SIT BY YOU. I HAVE POTATOE CHIPS. CHOMP CHOMP!!

Oop.Sorry. I try to chew quietly.
chomp
chomp

night.owls.sb said...

sorry vig

bono won pass her the award!

You have to let it go now vig it is only fair!!!

spring said...

May I say...y'all are F U N

Bon'O said...

VIG~~Ellen did rock! Have you seen her do interviews? What a together young lady!! I actually wish it could have been a tie.

Anonymous said...

You're right nowmercy...Ellen Page is only 21...she has a huge future...but she was sooooooo good in Juno (plus she's Canadian!!!!)

RonnieGirl said...

K...Shirley

spring said...

I don't want chips, I want soy delicious butter pecan outa the carton

night.owls.sb said...

shirley
I can hear you, quite chomping please!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Hey no one answered my question about the guy who had been nominated 20 time. Did he win?

spring said...

My gosh that was cute, that 11 year old has nerves of steel and the heart of an angel..

Anonymous said...

Bono...I saw Ellen on Letterman...she was fantastic! So composed for someone so young!

Maureen said...

orgasm

correct spelling for Ronnie and what Colin Ferrel can bring on!

Anonymous said...

I like this song...what movie is it from?

night.owls.sb said...

That should have been "quiet"

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Well it's kind of hard to suck on a potatoe chip Carol!!

spring said...

Shirley..no idea...who the guy is.


oooo I don't think I like this song..yet anyway

East Bay J said...

Good evening!

I'm ready for the after Oscar party, in pink flannel pajamas by Sparkles (I think that's what it says, kind of worn out), lavendar bathrobe by At Home Wear (Sears??), and tan fuzzy slippers by the famous designer, Made In China.

Quite the sight for sore eyes.

As an accessory, I have a medium hair brownish whitish orangish feline attached at the lap.

Tonight is au natural, no makeup, hair is wet and looks amazing, stunning and fabulous.

See you at the party!

night.owls.sb said...

not sure vig

did i read mo had a orgasm?

spring said...

If the chip chomping is bothersome..turn up the volume and chew along

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Hey Maureen did you see my "breasts" comment from earlier?

spring said...

EBJAY: Looking mighty fine with your feline...

East Bay J said...

Bono I love how we accessorize together, both wearing a cat! haha

Anonymous said...

Hi East Bay J! Welcome!

Oh, the song was from "Once"...that is a great movie!!! Well worth renting!

night.owls.sb said...

Yes shirley it is, perhaps you can ice cream instead...yummie...

How about ice cream sundaes...

spring said...

Carol..why does Mo get the orgasm..just cuz we are alone... hmmm

night.owls.sb said...

ebj
I think you look fab!!!!

RonnieGirl said...

If anyone could spell that word, it would be Mo.

At least Tink doesn't have to come in here in the morning and tell me how to spell it...if she did, I'd ask her to give me the definition. Now, that would be toooo funny.

Did ya'll know that Terms of Endearment was filmed here in Houston...just a little trivia.

night.owls.sb said...

nowmercy
Geez, I was wondering the exact same thing, You think she would share, she is always sharing food with us, I guess some things are not to be shared!

:O(

spring said...

man I gotta pee and I don't want to miss anything... doing a different kind of happy dance now.....

East Bay J said...

Hey I bought fresh pumpkin pie today so passing it around. I did forgot the whipped cream, tho.

Help yourselves!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Ok Carol sundaes all around.
WHO WANTS NUTS???!!

spring said...

I keep sighing and clapping with these old clips...wow, such great memories..the movies and the times..

spring said...

NUTS?.. maybe later

Maureen said...

NOWMERCY, I am alone as well...dressed in my finest lime green MADD walk t-shirt, blue plaid flannel bottoms, sweat socks and dirty hair and no make-up.

The orgasm was just a distant memory!

spring said...

I love Renee Z, but does anyone else squint when they watch her?

night.owls.sb said...

Ok shirley

You get all the fixings, I am not good at that!

RonnieGirl said...

It's been a while, Shirley, but I'll have some nuts and anything that comes with them...

ronnie

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Just a little more trivia for you. "The Scarlet Letter" with Demi Moore was filmed her in my town , Shelburne NS.

spring said...

Yay MO...You look divine in those socks baby

spring said...

Shirley...WOW I had no idea

night.owls.sb said...

now mercy
lol !!!!!!

mo
Distant memory! lol!!!

night.owls.sb said...

I don't think Nicole Kidman is pretty!

East Bay J said...

Hi TN VIG!!

Thanx for the welcome.

Ice cream sundae sounds really good. So does pie.

Does anyone have peanut butter cookies?

My parrot is yelling SHUT UP and I'm not even talking! He's such a nut.

Anonymous said...

Nicole's necklace is askew!!

RonnieGirl said...

She's my favorite. So beautiful!!

Love her accent>

spring said...

Does anyone else want to respectfully reach in and adjust Nicole's necklace...

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Nowmercy when I read your comment at 10:28 I read it as "squirt when they watch her" instead of squint. LOL!!

spring said...

EBJ I have orange chocolate chip mini cookies

RonnieGirl said...

Awww Carol...she's beautiful.

spring said...

Shirley..stop it..I need to pee and you are making me scream with lol

Maureen said...

CAROL, I think she looks prettier when her hair is all curly and wild.

I want an ice cream sundae with lots 'o nuts, please.

EBJ, I don't have any peanut butter cookies, but I have peanut butter cups (fake Resse's!) Help yourself.

RonnieGirl said...

ebj...don't sit next to Shirley, she chomps too loud.

Ronnie

spring said...

I really dig his scarf...

Anonymous said...

Hey Nowmercy....no disrespect for this elderly gentleman...but this seems to be a good time to use the loo!

RonnieGirl said...

You go, John!!

Anonymous said...

Did they say Patrick Dempsey....somebody alert Zona!!!!!

night.owls.sb said...

I think whabby has a scarf like that!!!


nicolekidman
I just think she has s fake face, I can't explain it, It just does not say beauty to me...

RonnieGirl said...

vig...lol

night.owls.sb said...

To me Catherine Zeta Jones is a beauty!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Hey Nowmercy maybe Whabbear can give you one of those NASA diapers.

Ronniegirl I'm not eating chips now (Carol complained too much) so I have a sundae.

Oh EBJ don't sit there I spilled some chocolate sauce or is that where Nowmercy was sitting? LOL!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Now, i agree with you on that one, Carol..

Where is Shirley? i'm saving her place here.

Bon'O said...

EBJ~~(in my best Billy Crystal)"You look Mahhvelous" & I did a spit-take when reading "the famous designer "Made in China" ;D~

Carol: tee hee, snort~~Since today is about WORDS, may I nominate Mo's comment (@ 10:19) for 'This Owl Said'?

night.owls.sb said...

shirley
Oh my goodness, so funnny

lol!!!!!!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Oh, okay. Now don't drip any on my lovely outfit.

ronnie

night.owls.sb said...

Yes bono you can!

DreamaTexas said...

Hey all. Wow, everyone is so wonderfully dressed in here for the Oscars. I'm still in my jeans and make up. It is warm here so I have no fuzzy slippers on. I am bare foot. I'm going to go scrub my face and come back and dive into the potato chips with ya!

RonnieGirl said...

run

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Carol I think the word for tomorrow should be orgasm.

RonnieGirl said...

run

RonnieGirl said...

run

night.owls.sb said...

Get out the way!!!!!

RonnieGirl said...

run

spring said...

memem

RonnieGirl said...

run

RonnieGirl said...

run

RonnieGirl said...

run

spring said...

omg..really? I just peed and came back..really

night.owls.sb said...

Bang, Push, Shove.............

Shit you guys are animal owls!

RonnieGirl said...

pant, pant, pant!

YES for Ronnie.

Bon'O said...

Patrick, Patrick, Patrick.......oh my badness!

Maureen said...

CAROL, I agree about Catherine Zeta Jones...GORGEOUS.

I hear a lot that Catherine and I look like twins. OK, It's only from a voice in my head...but I hear it!! Wishful thinking!

Anonymous said...

I screamed MCDREAMY and got FOADED....so I shall whisper it was the beautiful mcd!!!!

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Could someone help me up off the floor? You guys are wild!
Dreama don't eat the chips too loudly or Carol will get upset.

spring said...

That IS chocolate sauce.. I did make it to the potty with no mishaps.

RonnieGirl said...

I'd like to thank all the little owls that got out of my way and now, I'll accept my award.

Thank you so very much.

Oh, here's John with it now. Thank you daling. smack!

Anonymous said...

Vinny Barbarino!!!!

East Bay J said...

Mo, peanut butter cups will do! Yum.

Shirley, I won't sit there til I know for sure what that is! haha!

Bono, glad you enjoy my designer slippers.

I think I'm the only one not watching the Oscard!

night.owls.sb said...

mo
And that same voice tells me I look like Penelope Cruz!

spring said...

sheesh

night.owls.sb said...

I think "ron popiel" painted John Travolta hair on...

Anonymous said...

Good song - good movie!!!

spring said...

Carol..I choked I laughed so hard..so true.. poor John.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Couldn't this guy afford a tie? He is at the Oscars after all.

Maureen said...

CAROL, LMAO @ Ron Popeil painting on J.T's hair!!!!!! You are sooooo right on there!

Anonymous said...

Is it just me or does Johhny T have Eddy Munster sideburns?

spring said...

Who left the chip crumbs on the couch... my dog will clean it up for you...

I love Clint Eastwood..oh jeez

East Bay J said...

I saw a comment today somewhere about John Travolta's Oscar hair and it was pretty funny.

They said that he used his "Just For Men" dye too recently, and the dye stain is still on his scalp! hahahahhahahaha.

spring said...

VIG.. and they should have stayed on Eddy.

East Bay J said...

TN VIG LMAO!!

John T. used to have an Eddy Munster widows peak too.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Nowmercy just take Ronnie's blanket and throw over it.

spring said...

uh, no offense but Ronnie won't let go and it looks likes she might chew on one side of it..

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Then just flip the cushion over. The cleaners will get it in the morning.

night.owls.sb said...

Well "ron popiel" had the spray can thingy that came in all colors and you can spray in people's hair and like magic, You had spray painted hair. I wonder how much he charged John Travolta to go to his house and do that?

He prob bought the Showtime Rotisserie and made his some chicken!

Oh no I hope it wasn't birdee

Maureen said...

Didn't the Ken dolls, in the olden days have a painted on hair-do just like Johnny's? I wonder if he is anatomically void, like the Ken doll, too?

spring said...

Class act for this woman to give her chance to say thank you and represent creativity...very very nice... I love JON...

spring said...

Why don't I like Cameron Diaz?

night.owls.sb said...

mo
So funny the Ken doll has hair just like John's

LOL !!!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Ya'll clean up that crap...I mean chocolate, off the sofa and don't use my blankie. Here, I brought the Woolite stuff..

Anonymous said...

Okay, now Cameron has after the gym hair!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Mo....LOL about the Ken doll being like John.

spring said...

Vig..yeah.. I would like to see a real hair do. Oh, they just showed Sissy..gosh I LOVE that woman

But I just can't like Cameron..darn

spring said...

Jane Wyman, Kity, Dabbs Greer, Suzanne, Deborah, Ingmar, Heath....wow

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

What a beautiful piece of music with those clips.

Maureen said...

That was a nice in memoriam tribute.

But how could they leave off Allen Melvin - the iconic Sam the Butcher of the Brady Bunch?

spring said...

Good point MO

spring said...

I really want the score to Kite Runner...
Please Please Please

spring said...

Darn it..that music cannot stand on its own, but Kite Runner can...oh well, he seems like a very humble guy..good to see a good winner.

Shirley(NCC-1701) said...

Well people I'm going to call it a night. It's 12:09 here and I have a doctors appointment in the morning.

Thanks Maureen for the food.

Thanks to everyone who contributed their stories and comments regarding my blog.

Thanks Carol for letting me post.

Good night everyone!

RonnieGirl said...

i love Tom Hanks!

spring said...

Good night dear hearted Shriley..please get some good sleep...hope the appt goes well for you, thanks for making me laugh so hard.

Anonymous said...

Good night Shirley....thank you for your honest and amazing blog today!!!!

night.owls.sb said...

Goodnite shirley

Your welcome, and thanks for submitting todays daily blog!!!

I am eating my sundae now!!!!

Bon'O said...

Everybody wave Hi to my SIL @ Camp Victory, Baghdad!! Thanks Tom Hanks.

RonnieGirl said...

Enjoyed it, Shirley. Thank you for all the laughs and the goodies. Good luck at the doctors office tomorrow. You know the first thing he's going to say after he says Hello is....Take off everything but your socks. Have fun!

ronnie

night.owls.sb said...

waving madly....

waving, waving, waving, waving!!

spring said...

Nice intro...

The silver dressed woman really has a wide wide mouth.

I want to see the film...sounds very interesting...

Anonymous said...

Waving to bon'o's SIL!

Just_Lin said...

Good night Shirley.

God, you guys are all so funny. I've been trying to catch up on the posts and watch the Oscars at the same time. I'll make a sundae now. Thanks.

spring said...

WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE WAVE hi BON's SIL

Maureen said...

SHIRLEY, good night! Have sweet dreams. Thank you for some badly needed laughs today. It was my pleasure feeding you.
Good luck tomorrow

spring said...

Hey JusLin have a seat..and share... what are YOU wearing?

Anonymous said...

Some powerful docs there!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Hi Bon'oregon's son-in-law.

Stay safe and thank you.

Ronnie

spring said...

BONO..is your daughter watching? What was that like?

Maureen said...

WTF is on top of Elton John's head? Is that a plume?????

Ya'd think people as rich as EJ and JT could buy better hair!!

RonnieGirl said...

Hi just_lin~~
Watch out and don't sit in the chocolate syrup.
Ronnie

spring said...

Elton John must have fallen into icing or something

spring said...

Ronnie...we flipped the cushion, all is well and your blanket is safe. Anyone have tums?

night.owls.sb said...

Ron Popiel to the rescue

RonnieGirl said...

Thank you nowmercy.

Anonymous said...

Swooooooon...harrison ford!!!!!

spring said...

I hope WHABBY is having fun...can hardly wait for his take on all this madness..

Just_Lin said...

Ronnie Thanks for warning me about the chocolate syrup.

Maureen ROFLMAO @ Elton's plume.

nowmercy Yes, I want to squint back at Renee Z. LOL

Anonymous said...

Yay...Juno!!!!!!!!

RonnieGirl said...

Tacky dress for the Oscars.

spring said...

Diablo looked kinda self conscious about her dress..Dig the body art and the real body.

RonnieGirl said...

I like her, just not the dress.

Ronnie

spring said...

JUSTLIN..What are you wearing..cmon..give

spring said...

Ronnie...I will launder your blanket later if you want..I think it is pretty and soothing

Bon'O said...

Didn't realize until watching CBS Sunday Morning this a.m., Elton John has really mellowed out, matured, gone quite clean. Marriage, living in Atlanta seems to agree with him. I think all proceeds from his big bash tonight are going to AIDS foundation. I thought they might have more $$$ if they passed on the party, but I guess 'networking' helps. He's auctioned off all his old flashy clothes, was very serious and articulate in the interview and apologetic for his past misadventures.

RonnieGirl said...

Awww, nowmercy, that's okay, you don't have to do that. I'll let you use some of it, cause I know you'll not suck on it and get it all wet.

ronnie

Anonymous said...

this one has to be Johnny Depp!!!!!

Just_Lin said...

nowmercy I'm dressed pretty normal. I just came in from putting the garbage out for pick-up in the a.m. so....I have on tennis shoes, brown velour comfy pants, pink top, no make-up today and never did anything with my hair either. I am also wearing my deceased husband's cozy fleece jacket with the sleeves rolled up as he was 6'4".

I love Helen Mirren!

spring said...

BONO..that is so good to know about Elton..may he live long and lovely

Maureen said...

Helen Miren looks stunning

Anonymous said...

....or george Clooney

Anonymous said...

.....or Daniel Day Lewis

spring said...

JustLIn..so glad for the cozy jacket

RonnieGirl said...

bon'oregon~~
So that's where Lovey got her new outfit for her avatar....from Elton's early auction.

Ronnie

Bon'O said...

I'm guessing DDL for Best Actor....love me some Johnny Depp!

Just_Lin said...

I love Tommy Lee Jones!!!

Anonymous said...

What an actor he is!!!

spring said...

DDL...hmmm He is tall...

spring said...

I love Tommy too

Just_Lin said...

Remember DDL in My Left Foot? God, he was good in that.

Maureen said...

400
?

Maureen said...

400
?

spring said...

He was good in that...I didn't see this movie..I am outa the loop

Maureen said...

400???

Maureen said...

400???

Maureen said...

400???

Maureen said...

400???

Just_Lin said...

396

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